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Hey everyone, im new- been watching the boards for a bit though.
Ok, this is a strange situation for me. My girlfriend and I have been having sex for the past few months and we've had a couple of breakages. The weird thing is that each time, when Ive said anything about getting a MAP shes taken on the whole 'stop being so uptight' thing and the first time, after telling me she'd get it- she told me she had 'forgotten'.
I've still been a bit worried about her being pregnant so I talked to her and she said she'd take a test but hasnt yet. However, the other breakage- lol that sounds really funny- was on thursday night and she did the same thing, almost not wanting to bother with it. I said that it was almost as if she wanted to get pregnant and she said she didnt, stupid but stuff still seems a bit odd.
And I have no idea if she's pregnant or not cos aparently she only gets her period every 3 months or something.
Any ideas?
Ok, this is a strange situation for me. My girlfriend and I have been having sex for the past few months and we've had a couple of breakages. The weird thing is that each time, when Ive said anything about getting a MAP shes taken on the whole 'stop being so uptight' thing and the first time, after telling me she'd get it- she told me she had 'forgotten'.
I've still been a bit worried about her being pregnant so I talked to her and she said she'd take a test but hasnt yet. However, the other breakage- lol that sounds really funny- was on thursday night and she did the same thing, almost not wanting to bother with it. I said that it was almost as if she wanted to get pregnant and she said she didnt, stupid but stuff still seems a bit odd.
And I have no idea if she's pregnant or not cos aparently she only gets her period every 3 months or something.
Any ideas?
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we've been together for near on 9 months now and i can say shes a prety level headed person, plans to travel for her gap year etc... so i really dont see why she would want to get pregnant at all. she is quiet sensible really, i just dont get what this is about
exactly.
either be more careful or stop having sex.
or...tell her to talk to her mum about the birds and the bees.
if she was as sensible as you say, she would get her ass to the doctors sharpish. bottom line is, if you keep having accidents, and she keeps avoiding taking the MAP, she will get pregnant.
if you don't know what it's all about, don't keep potentially making babies while you find out.
nature doesn't care whether it was an accident or not, or how many risks you take. having a child is not something you can undo, so i can't stress how important is is not to let it happen.
accidents happen, of course they do. but the smart thing to do after an accident would be to cover all bases, and you have got to find out why your girlfriend isn't doing this.
Who buys the condoms? If they're tampered with they can break too.