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Out of the blue
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A couple of weeks ago I went up to my mates house and his cousin was there, and me and his cousin automatically hit it off and ended up going out with each other. His parents were away for 2 weeks so we all hung at his house and stuff until his parents came back.. which was sunday. Then I get a text off him on Monday saying its over, when things were amazingly fine the previous day. I'm just totally confused. Things were going so well.. and then this happens! His mate told me that he was just pissed off but I don't understand why he had to finish it. I really like him and I don't know what to do.. everyones said he will be back to his normal self soon and will want me back. Help?
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next time go into a possible relationship more steadily, and make sure you know the guy properly first
i gave my heart away to a guy, and he broke it (he is sorry and wants me back though)- i was devastated and wasnt myself for months, now i find it hard to trust guys at all. Which is why i haven't had another boyfriend since.
I have 2 friends in long distance relationships, they're both seeing their boyfriends over half term and have both been set tons of coursework and revision to do, so they can't do it!
One is really behind on most of her courseworks and shes stressing out. Seriously, at our age there are so many more important things than boys - because right now most of them are still little boys and need to grow up.
I do still have strong feelings for my ex, because we're still good friends and he still has strong feelings for me. I'm going to meet up with him soon to chat and stuff, but we decided to take things slow and see where it goes. Which is fine by me because i can still stay focused on gcses, not that i enjoy doing them but they have to be done.
Are you sure you are doing this for the right reason? You should tread very carefully and make sure that you're not rushing into anything 'just because'.
I've had feelings for my ex for a while now and I think its the right thing to do.
I've got feelings for a bloke I know I should stay away from. And when I'm feeling down it's tempting to reinitiate contact to boost my ego. But I know that I would be doing it for the wrong reason.
Think it through. Not for us but for yourself.