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Hi!
I was just wonderin...does sex bring u n ur partner closer? iv just recently had sex wiv my boyf, n he made a bit thing out of it, but i dnt feel any diff...he obviously does cos hes changed the way he acts around me, but is there something im missing here cos nothings changed to me!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Has it brought a lot of you closer to them?
I was just wonderin...does sex bring u n ur partner closer? iv just recently had sex wiv my boyf, n he made a bit thing out of it, but i dnt feel any diff...he obviously does cos hes changed the way he acts around me, but is there something im missing here cos nothings changed to me!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Has it brought a lot of you closer to them?
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Depends how big a deal you think sex is. I thought it was quite a big thing but it didn't necessarily make me feel any different about that person. The first time I slept with my current boyfriend, however, was really special and made me feel much closer to him. It's a personal thing <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
**cringes with embarassment at her own tackiness!!**
But i havent found it always does, in fact sometimes i think it has the opposite effect.