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Closeness

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi!
I was just wonderin...does sex bring u n ur partner closer? iv just recently had sex wiv my boyf, n he made a bit thing out of it, but i dnt feel any diff...he obviously does cos hes changed the way he acts around me, but is there something im missing here cos nothings changed to me!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Has it brought a lot of you closer to them?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well for me it was very intimate, and we felt a bit more closer in the sense of intimacy, but i didnt feel like a changed person afterwards <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well unless your boyfriend regularly transports himself down into your torso, I don't see how you can get much closer.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LOL at Turtle!
    Depends how big a deal you think sex is. I thought it was quite a big thing but it didn't necessarily make me feel any different about that person. The first time I slept with my current boyfriend, however, was really special and made me feel much closer to him. It's a personal thing <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think it depends on the kind of sex you have. with my just recently ex-boyfriend i think it did make us closer, a sorta sense of sharin everythin

    **cringes with embarassment at her own tackiness!!**

    But i havent found it always does, in fact sometimes i think it has the opposite effect.
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