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I don't want to start a whole male Vs female thing here (periods Vs getting kicked in the balls <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">), I'm talking specifically about sex, orgasms in particular.
I can't help feeling that women get more pleasure than us men, don't get me wrong, I really enjoy sex but all the women I've been with seem to enjoy it a lot more than me. When my gf goes down on me, it's bloody nice, but when I go down on her she starts humping (for want of a better word) my face, to the extent that my nose is very sore!
I think that for women the build-up to orgasm is much more enjoyable, for men it's just a means to an end really, without coming it's all a bit unsatisfying, whereas in my experience, women get as much pleasure from the build-up as the orgasm itself.
Just going off on a tangent here to illustrate this point, I was having a bath with my gf and since the bath is quite small and sex wasn't an option I used my hands to stimulate her, (btw this was a very very good idea, water is a very handy lubricant for clitoral play <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ). Well anyway, I was enjoying myself so much pleasuring her that I didn't really notice how much she was "grinding" about, but when she had come I realised that the whole carpet floor was soaked and the bath was half empty! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Well I've rambled enough, you get the idea, do women get more pleasure from foreplay, sex, etc than men?
I can't help feeling that women get more pleasure than us men, don't get me wrong, I really enjoy sex but all the women I've been with seem to enjoy it a lot more than me. When my gf goes down on me, it's bloody nice, but when I go down on her she starts humping (for want of a better word) my face, to the extent that my nose is very sore!
I think that for women the build-up to orgasm is much more enjoyable, for men it's just a means to an end really, without coming it's all a bit unsatisfying, whereas in my experience, women get as much pleasure from the build-up as the orgasm itself.
Just going off on a tangent here to illustrate this point, I was having a bath with my gf and since the bath is quite small and sex wasn't an option I used my hands to stimulate her, (btw this was a very very good idea, water is a very handy lubricant for clitoral play <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> ). Well anyway, I was enjoying myself so much pleasuring her that I didn't really notice how much she was "grinding" about, but when she had come I realised that the whole carpet floor was soaked and the bath was half empty! <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Well I've rambled enough, you get the idea, do women get more pleasure from foreplay, sex, etc than men?
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But I supose its fair compensation for having to be pregnant and have babies lol.
And btw if she *is* pretending to enjoy it that much then Halle Berry should not have got that oscar for best actress <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Girls get the better deal of multiple orgasms but atleast u men get them on a regular basis!!!
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your bf cums when you finger him?
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Just messing with ya!
I see the point made my ppl above about quality Vs frequency, but I guess that depends on your relationship, personally I wouldn't ever let my gf's needs go unfulfilled just cos I'd come. If you find the right guy then you shouldn't have to feel like he's getting more from the sexual aspect of your relationship than you are.
I have once or twice but i dont all that often either mate so dont worry! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
[ 26-03-2002: Message edited by: ariadne ]
its true men do cum no matter wot. i can give my bf a crap hand job and he will still cum. he can finger me craply and i wont cum!! but i think where my relationship is concerned my bf does more work. sex is good for me but i never cum, so he breaks out in a sweat with the sex. then he has to go again my fingering me or licking me out, cos he doesnt like me to not be satisfied. i get all this pleasure and he does all the work. so i do c wot u r saying!
When i'm fingered or gone down on i cum and its amazing, but for some unusual reason i have to tense my legs up to cum. weird or what!!