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hi, 4 the past few weeks, on a fri night, i have been out drinkin with m8s and hooked up with the same guy and now hes fingered me and ive given him head, but last fri he wanted 2 have sex, and although i want 2 2, i know it wouldnt mean that much 2 him as he is experienced and it would be my 1st time. im not 1 of those ppl{not that im criticising}that thinks sex should be about love and stuff, i dont really know what i would like in reply 2 this, i guess just general advice on n e of the subjects ive written about!!
cheerz **sophie** xx my_fave_word_is_bollocks@hotmail.com
cheerz **sophie** xx my_fave_word_is_bollocks@hotmail.com
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2) [Any logic in this?] You are 14 years old considering losing your virginity to a one night stand after a drunken binge and you have stated that it wouldnt mean that much to him [/Any logic in this?]
3) Have you ever actually been in love? I can tell you now, its about respect to each other, a person being totally besotted with you, it doesnt mean having a guy walk off after using you for his purposes, leaving you to pull up a pair of blood stained/cum ridden knickers, shivering, feeling used, hurt physically and mentally, head pulsating from alcohol and wondering what it has all been about because you wanted to know 'what it feels like' - 99.9% of the time, thats the harsh truth of it. (been there, done that, brought the t shirt)
be careful and if you must screw this guy, use a condom
I lost it to a horrible 12 stone beast of a woman and it was absolutely horrible and I really wish I hadn't done it cos it was totally crap and I just wish I had it left to lose to someone who can be classified as human and who hasn't slept with so many men that it would be tighter trying to have sex with a bucket.
Basically, I was 17, begging for it, and not picky about who I shagged. If I were you i'd wait til someone important came along. At 18, I`m still waiting for someone who isn't repulsed by the idea of even going out with me, but I really think waiting for someone whos important would be better for ya.
Anyway, as go_away said, if you really have to screw him then atleast use protection as you don't wana get some nasty STD off some slut guy (yes, they exist) who just thinks of you as a quick and easy drunken lay. I`m a bloke and believe me he is prolly thinking that.
xx deeby doo xx