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Straight men and their Dildos
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Howz this for an interesting post?
How many straight men do you know that have there own dildos? This is a randomly taboo subject!! I have to admit I have five or so but I am straight!! I just enjoy the pentration.
I never did tell my girlfriend about em but I got her to do me with a strapon about a year ago and she didnt think much of it and claimed it was unfair because she never go any pleasure from it properly and just preferred doing it the 'normal' way.
Now I am forced to hide these toys from her knowing she didnt want anything to do with it all. I just think of them as aids and I only use them about once a month when shes not around by myself. As our relationship continues I keep getting paranoid she'd find them but tell myself its silly cos its not like i'm cheating on her.
What r your thoughts?? Its a weird one I know. Any advice? I've tried throwing them away but theres one or two I cant part with. And I h8 that so many of em are pink :S
Please tell me i'm not the only guy with this problem.
How many straight men do you know that have there own dildos? This is a randomly taboo subject!! I have to admit I have five or so but I am straight!! I just enjoy the pentration.
I never did tell my girlfriend about em but I got her to do me with a strapon about a year ago and she didnt think much of it and claimed it was unfair because she never go any pleasure from it properly and just preferred doing it the 'normal' way.
Now I am forced to hide these toys from her knowing she didnt want anything to do with it all. I just think of them as aids and I only use them about once a month when shes not around by myself. As our relationship continues I keep getting paranoid she'd find them but tell myself its silly cos its not like i'm cheating on her.
What r your thoughts?? Its a weird one I know. Any advice? I've tried throwing them away but theres one or two I cant part with. And I h8 that so many of em are pink :S
Please tell me i'm not the only guy with this problem.
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I think you will find that out over time and by experimenting with other people.
Maybe try the bondage scene, its a bit more open minded and accepting.
You're a guy going out with a girl?
You have dildo's that you use to give yourself anal penetration?
She put on a strap-on and performed intercourse on you?
and she didnt understand, well like doing it...
Ok if all above is correct, i can see her point in not liking it but mine opinion would be different to what she thought. My ex had ALOT of porn on his computer but i never got annoyed with it. But if he had dildo's (he might have done i never saw them though) i think i would wonder why he is with me ... but he did like putting my vibrator against his balls.... but he never bought one...
Do you not feel that you may be bi-sexual?
Im only asking coz recently i came to a conclusion that i am bi-sexual whilst i enjoy sex with a man the thought of a woman licking me out and pleasuring me is more of turn on for me.
In conclusion to your post:
i would feel odd if my man had a dildo let alone 5 but people are different maybe im being simple minded but thats how i feel. Dont hide them but dont make a big deal out of them...
Well I like the thought of being licked out by a woman rather than a man, my question was based on my own preferences.
I never once said or indicated it should be limited to gay or bi-sexual people....
Ive known straight men to like bottom play, but not to go so far as to buy their own dildos.
Be careful it doesnt turn into a fetish, it should be a bit of extra fun, not something you cant get turned on without.
lots of women do, it doesn't mean they are bisexual. the thought of it is a turn on because of a psychological term called 'projection'. actually going through with it is much different.
I'm a straight married man who has never had sex with another man, never wanted to, and I have dildos that I use on my anus. I've read enough on the internet to understand that there are lots of men like me. Enjoying anal penetration has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
That said, I would advise the original poster that his girlfriend might enjoy using a toy called a Feeldoe. It's a double ended dildo with a special shape. The woman inserts one end in her vagina and the other end projects out in the same direction as an erect penis. She can also wear a strap-on harness if she wants to keep it from coming out. Either way, she can fuck her man up the ass and also enjoy the movement inside her. They also have a vibrator in the woman's end for further stimulation. So she can have an orgasm while giving her man what he wants--anal plunging like she has a penis, and prostate stimulation that will give any man the thrill of his life.
They should release a 70s British glam rock version called 'Cum On Feeldoe Noize'