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am I a dominatrix?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
okay, this is a serious question here, okay?

I find I'm kind of strange, I can't really get turned on unless I'm dominating him. Ya know, teasing him, tying him up, blind folds, spanking, ect. I don't have the money to buy these things yet, but when I do have the money (and a place where no one will find these things!) I'd like to own some handcuffs, blind folds, a strap-on, and a few other things. Sex toys, ya know? Anyways, I've been wondering about this for a while, because I can't really get off on oral unless I'm tied up and blind folded, so am I a dominatrix? or just weird? :eek2: :crazyeyes

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you cannot get off unless you are tied up then you enjoy submission. but tbh it sounds as though you like it both ways?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it sounds like you like to be sexually dominant, but a dominatrix is a profession. A prostitute who does the whips and chains thing. You can play act at being a dominatrix without actually being one.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you take the dominant role in sadomasochistic practices then yeah, you're a dominatrix.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds like you like to dominate, but you like to be dominated too. find a guy who wants the same and you'll be away ;)

    yes, a little strange, but not obscenely so! many many people are the same. I'm sure there's plenty of info on the net if you (carefully! :lol: ) search
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As long as you're not drawing blood, I think what you're describing is not too unusual. I think it's hot.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    a dominatrix is a profession. A prostitute who does the whips and chains thing.

    A prostitute?? :confused::confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly how old are you?

    ye ist not that abnormal for some girls to be like that
    most girls aint- and ive tried to encourage some of the girls ive been with to try it out been a dominatrix but they couldnt so yeah people do like them-

    Weird is just a manner of taste- like if I went into some of my sexual tastes some would be weird but i find them normal. Anyways some emn out there like that hing- and f they dont fuck them and have fun tieing them up!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly how old are you?

    18, why? I did mean dominatrix in the acting/playing sense, not the occupation sense. In that sense, I'm more of a scientist. :razz:

    I just find it somewhat weird. I grew up in a very religious home, and have been told various times that people who like this stuff are perverted, and just about every other negative thing under the sun. :banghead: try as I might, I can't get those thoughts out of my head.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I just find it somewhat weird. I grew up in a very religious home, and have been told various times that people who like this stuff are perverted, and just about every other negative thing under the sun. :banghead: try as I might, I can't get those thoughts out of my head.

    That could help explain why you feel this way - I have been brought up in a Catholic family and always had "no sex before marriage" drummed into me, yet since losing my virginity I have become more and more filthy minded (and not afraid to show it), and sex is almost constantly on my mind. I also have a fantasy to have sex outside a church or cathedral, and I'm sure that's a way of going against everything I've previously had to repress.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    18, why? I did mean dominatrix in the acting/playing sense, not the occupation sense. In that sense, I'm more of a scientist. :razz:

    I just find it somewhat weird. I grew up in a very religious home, and have been told various times that people who like this stuff are perverted, and just about every other negative thing under the sun. :banghead: try as I might, I can't get those thoughts out of my head.

    Nothing wrong with it.

    Religious headcases eh - just ignore them.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    girl your just kinky your in good company though! :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As long as you're not drawing blood, I think what you're describing is not too unusual. I think it's hot.
    What's wrong with blood play?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What's wrong with blood play?


    Haemosexuals, the real vampires.
  • Teh_GerbilTeh_Gerbil Stalin's Organist Posts: 13,327
    What's wrong with blood play?

    I wondered that.

    Ah, Religion etc... whilst not having religion drummed into me... (Every time we've taken my dad to an old church or cathedral to look round, there has been a storm. No shit either. Really), I have been bought up to beleive any sexual activites out of the norm are bad. Which means, I feel dirty thinking about it. It sucks.

    Just go for it. Hell, the feeling of it being taboo can be a bit of a turn on. Trust me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teh_Gerbil wrote:
    go for it. Hell, the feeling of it being taboo can be a bit of a turn on. Trust me.
    Call me ;)

    lol
  • Teh_GerbilTeh_Gerbil Stalin's Organist Posts: 13,327
    Hahaha! There could be childre... oh wait, sex forum.:P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think there's anything wrong with "blood play" but there are some health risks involved there, as well as a fair amount of pain. But the threat of infection, etc., not really a turn on for me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    blood play is DEFINITELY out. not something I could do for... well health reasons. I'm not sick or anything... well sort of but it's a mental illness, not a blood related one just.... it's not a good thing for me.... okay can anyone else tell i'm uncomfortable bringing this up? lol
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