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does anal sex count as a way to lose your virginity?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Anal sex as in a gay blokey way that is <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
Or are you only not a virgin when you have slept with the opposite sex?
Just wondering <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Oh gosh did any of that make sense? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it does, but if evryone else thinks it dosen't that'll make me virginal instead of a dirty whore.

    It takes blood and guts to be this way but i'm still just a cliché.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say it is still losing your virginity. It's still sexual intercourse ain't it?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think it by having anal sex, is losing you virginity. I always thought by having sex thats when you lose it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but blinkgirl, what happens if ur gay? do u never lose ur virginity? i think in this case, amongst gays, anal sex SHOULD be regarded as losing ones virginity.

    so dont worry jeffrey, ur still a dirty ol' whore. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree, but i mean if ur bi or straight, then by having sex show determine that u lose ur virginity. But i guess if your gay then buy having anal sex, well lose ur virginity.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    couldn't agree more. well, i could, but i wont <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    okay i really agree with cheeky, if its not intercourse then ur still a virgin..cuz by havein anal it doesn't break the seal...hehehe
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    so dont worry jeffrey, ur still a dirty ol' whore. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Cheeky fucker <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It takes blood and guts to be this way but i'm still just a cliché.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jeffrey:
    Cheeky fucker <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    im the one with my virginity still in tact <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If there's anything more important than my ego around here, i want it caught and shot now
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm still a virgin too...ne ways...


    ~~Lisa~~
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree, but i mean if ur bi or straight, then by having sex show determine that u lose ur virginity.

    Technically then speaking then, your saying Bi people loose their virginity twice? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I'm not sure, its weird, my personal opinion on that is that when you sleep with someone regardless of sex you loose your virginity...

    Thats the way it worked for me anyway.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it's not sexual intercourse by definition, as that is defined as being open to the birth of a child

    but you lose your "anal" flower/cherry <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by CHEEKy:
    I'd say it is still losing your virginity. It's still sexual intercourse ain't it?

    apparently not. sexual intercourse is defined as the act of inserting a penis into a vagina.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seems to me that the current definition of 'sex' as a word is outdated somewhat and doesn't fully reflect today's social activities...

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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by Justin Credible:
    Seems to me that the current definition of 'sex' as a word is outdated somewhat and doesn't fully reflect today's social activities...

    agreed

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Justin Credible:
    Seems to me that the current definition of 'sex' as a word is outdated somewhat and doesn't fully reflect today's social activities...

    I don't think the way we have sex has changed, nor has anyone come up with innovative new ideas for it

    it's just people in this age speak about it more freely and so it comes across as the newer generations believing themselves to be more clued up and into sex than their parents when they were at that age

    but im sure a younger version of everyone's parents were doing exactly the same as we do


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think the way we have sex has changed, nor has anyone come up with innovative new ideas for it

    I'm not saying it has and indeed I'm aware that its much the same its always been, the Karma Sutra was written some few thousand years ago and people still read that.

    but im sure a younger version of everyone's parents were doing exactly the same as we do

    I know but in talking in the context of the words meaning, until just over 30 years ago homosexual relationships and sex was unlawful, a forbidden seed although practiced secretly and still today there are many people who disagree with it....

    What I'm saying is that the word 'sex' within the english dictionary doesn't account for people with same-sex relationships it would, therefore, indicate that gay males and females are still virgins. Which is not the case as I'm sure anyone here who has had a same-sex experience will agree, every lad or girl that I've slept with I count as sex.


    [This message has been edited by Justin Credible (edited 01-08-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry to bring this post up again. I agree with M.D. I guess that if the guy was guy and still a virgin he doesn't have a choice of sex except anal. Sorry for repeating this but its true though, losing your virginity is when a penis goes into the vagina. So, I guess if the guy is guy and has never had intercourse with a woman then he is still a virgin in the eyes of not poping the cherry from a gerl, him being it his first time 2 put his penis in a gerls vagina.

    ~blinkgal13~
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why you sorry bout bringign the post up???? it was only posted yesterday
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    im the one with my virginity still in tact <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    Cheeky virgin then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    It takes blood and guts to be this way but i'm still just a cliché.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by blinkgal13:
    if the guy is gay and has never had intercourse with a woman then he is still a virgin

    Phew, what a relief. I thought I was destined to be labelled a dirty whore for the rest of my life.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    s'ok jeffrey, you can be a dirty virginal whore <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I`m only guessing but I`d say that anal sex is probly a way of losing virginity for a male.
    It probly doesn`t count for women though.

    I`ve never really thought about it but what is the definition of sex?
    1. Penis entering vagine
    2. Penis entering any orophis on another person.

    Fuck knows. And as anal sex isn`t high on my agenda for the future I probly won`t spend too much time thinking about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think Anal for straight people doesn't count as losing ur virginity. but for Gay/Lesbian people it does. well maybe not for lesbian :S. no one can really say it's one of those questions that cant be answered. i hope that helped at all
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yum yum steal petes' tasty golden nuggets
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DemonK1d:
    but for Gay/Lesbian people it does. well maybe not for lesbian

    Er, i don't know any lesbians that can have anal sex with each other. None of the lesbians i know have actually got penises, oddly enough.
    no one can really say it's one of those questions that cant be answered. i hope that helped at all

    This is the least useful post that anyone has ever made.

    It takes blood and guts to be this way but i'm still just a cliché.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DemonK1d:
    yum yum steal petes' tasty golden nuggets

    What the fuck is this supposed to mean?

    It takes blood and guts to be this way but i'm still just a cliché.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by jeffrey:
    What the fuck is this supposed to mean?


    if you find out, let me know.

    jeffrey:
    Er, i don't know any lesbians that can have anal sex with each other. None of the lesbians i know have actually got penises, oddly enough.

    lol! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jeffrey:
    This is the least useful post that anyone has ever made.

    I guess it is, but it is a question that I have been pondering over. It's not useful sure, but it's interesting non the less... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lieutenant:
    I guess it is, but it is a question that I have been pondering over. It's not useful sure, but it's interesting non the less... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    I didn't mean the thread i meant Demonwankid "I don't know what i'm talking about, hope you don't need anymore help" post.


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