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Female orgasms: cervix vs. clitoris

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
As a male, I have read a lot in an attempt to understand the female orgasm (since my partners so far rarely seem to have them). In some scientific places, I have read that female orgasms are strictly clitoral, and even those rare women who climax during intercourse, do so because of clitoral stimulation (I guess the G-spot and clitoris share the same nerves.) But in women's magazines, I have read that around half of all women will have an instant orgasm if their cervix is bumped during intercourse (which makes such women value men with long penises, since they can hit the cervix from almost any position). These two theories can't both be right. Ladies, what is the story? Is it all about the clitoris, or do a lot of you come purely from deep penetration and having your cervix bumped?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiighty ho then

    firstly - all girls are different

    secondly - why not do both?

    fact is - stimulating the clit straight off, no matter how gentle you are, is a no-no. if you rub around it, go inside, tease the clit from its hood then you can get somewhere

    next thing - why not have your fingers inside and use your thumb to gently rub the clit when it starts to come out? im sure thats the only reason why we have opposable fingers and thumb <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like deeeeeeeeep penetration and especially cliterol stimulation.... but every1 is different!
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    next thing - why not have your fingers inside and use your thumb to gently rub the clit when it starts to come out? im sure thats the only reason why we have opposable fingers and thumb <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    *worries about the sort of girls MD has been with... *... their anatomy seems distinctly different from mine.

    i dont get instant orgasms from my cervix anyway.

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:

    *worries about the sort of girls MD has been with... *... their anatomy seems distinctly different from mine.

    lol me too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    actually, i've never even heard of this cervix orgasm before, and i've never heard of or met somebody that does <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt;


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:
    *worries about the sort of girls MD has been with... *... their anatomy seems distinctly different from mine.

    take index and middle finger, insert into vagina

    take thumb, rub clit

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    no i didnt mean your technique MD.... just this bit "gently rub the clit when it starts to come out"

    odd.

    no, ive not heard of this cervix orgasm either, i think maybe the magazines mean a g-spot orgasm. thats not really at the top of the vagina where the cervix is though, its more on the inner wall a few inches up.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as a woman becomes aroused the clitoral hood draws itself back to expose the clitoris... that's what i was trying to describe (albeit badly)

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