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i am 17/m. I have never masturbated or never tired any thing to give myself any sexual happiness and i need some advice on how to do it and What to expect. i would be very greatful if anyone replies.
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If you're still worried then just hold tightly underneith the head and pull the foreskin back and forth as quickly as possible. After a while your arm is bound to hurt but after a bit of practice one of your arms are gonna be noticably stronger than the other! If this isn't enough, simply ask
Otherwise, just imagine that the partner of your dreams that you fancy the most is caressing your knob and let your fantasy tell your hand what to do.
You can't go wrong because you will realise what you want.
What everyone wants is different. Some people like hard shags and others would rather participate in slow grinds. Some like both and more.
Just find a private place and relax. Most people do it so it is obviously natural.
Have fun!
PS. My hubby says just experiment at your own pace (and you don't need to hurt your arm). Just chill, take your time and enjoy it.
The advice you have been given explains the "mechanics" of having a wank (masurbating), ie rubbing your cock with whichever hand you prefer, until you experience an absolutely amazing sensation, which is extremely difficult to describe (orgasm). Then you will ejaculate semen (spunk), which is a gloopy thickish white substance). Don't worry if the first time it looks a bit like snot, I remember mine did, and thinking it's not supposed to look like that, so I had another wank, and all was as it should be.
As suggested with the porn and fantasies, you need to be in the right frame of mind. Even now if I stop fantasising or thinking dirty when I wank, I kinda loose the moment, and it takes bloody ages. Which is pointless if you are having a crafty one in the bath, etc while gfriend/wife/mum etc, etc is downstairs and wondering what's taking you so long!!! Remember bubble bath was invented for young virile males who didn't want their mums to catch them wanking in the bath <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> !!!
Keep persevering, I remember it took me weeks before I sussed out what to do.
Relax and enjoy
regards derby
The advice you have been given explains the "mechanics" of having a wank (masturbating), ie rubbing your cock with whichever hand you prefer, until you experience an absolutely amazing sensation, which is extremely difficult to describe (orgasm). Then you will ejaculate semen (spunk), which is a gloopy thickish white substance). Don't worry if the first time it looks a bit like snot, I remember mine did, and thinking it's not supposed to look like that, so I had another wank, and all was as it should be.
As suggested with the porn and fantasies, you need to be in the right frame of mind. Even now if I stop fantasising or thinking dirty when I wank, I kinda loose the moment, and it takes bloody ages. Which is pointless if you are having a crafty one in the bath, etc while gfriend/wife/mum etc, etc is downstairs and wondering what's taking you so long!!! Remember bubble bath was invented for young virile males who didn't want their mums to catch them wanking in the bath <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> !!!
Keep persevering, I remember it took me weeks before I sussed out what to do.
Relax and enjoy
regards derby
Thanks again every one.
Tin Tin