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DESPERATE FOR HELP - ALL ADVICE GRATEFULLY RECEIVED!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Dear All,

I'm sure you've all heard this before but... I'm not sure if I've ever cum/had an orgasm before. I'm sure I've not had an orgasm before, tho I'm sure I've been close, and I'm not sure if I've ever cum before. I don't seem to be able to do either, alone or with b/f (now ex). How can I tell if I've cum/had an orgasm? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH IN ADVANCE!!!!

Choc xxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    u live in essex? <eg>

    as for the orgasms, u'll know when u have had one <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    whether you've cum before or had an orgasm, they're the SAME THING.

    i dont really know how to define it so youd know.... i think you would know though.

    youo have the same name as i used to use on the net before this one <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I posted a topic on this ages ago, ill try and find it for ya!

    I wouldnt worry tho, ive never had an orgasm either.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Have you ever been to see a gynacologist (sp)?? It could be that there is an anotomical reason for this.

    One of my female friends is sexually very well adjusted and generally very happy-go-lucky, but she's only ever had an orgasm with one specific guy. She's been with what I suppose is the "average" number of guys for her age but only ever found one who could make her come. Maybe you've not found a guy who's got the sexual "qualifications" yet??

    [This message has been edited by Lord of Little (edited 30-07-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everyone so far has explained it already!!! Right you can't expect to sleep with someone and orgasm stright away because when you get a new partner it's like loosing it all over again. You might not be able to through just sex (some ppl cum better with oral etc) honestly theres nothing wrong with you and you don't have to cum to enjoy yourself.... It's the person your with who makes it special!! as for your own, i've read here before (not naming names) that someone didn't orgasm on her own till a b/f found the right spot!!!
    God this doesn't make much sense!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks to all who've replied so far. I felt like I was the only person to have never had an orgasm, and I really feel like I'm missing out! I was reading some posts on here and I can't remember who it was now, but she was describing the most fantastic orgasms where she could bearly move afterwards. I suppose I'm just jealous! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
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