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question for the guys

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
what are the differences you think when you see a girl if you a)want her to be yr girlf
b)just want to pull her <img src="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/Gif/homercrawl.gif&quot; alt="image">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a girl but can I answer anyway?

    The ones you show interest in & fancy you won't be interested in more than a snog, but if he shows interest in you & you don't show you're interested back, he'll want you to be his girlfriend.

    Simple case of wanting what you can't have. Tell me otherwise guys.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by barbie:
    <STRONG>The ones you show interest in & fancy you won't be interested in more than a snog, but if he shows interest in you & you don't show you're interested back, he'll want you to be his girlfriend. </STRONG>

    Think you will find its pretty much the opposite...If a girl shows no interest then theres more of a challenge and it becomes a quest to shag her.

    Sexy, slutty, loud, cheap = shags
    Cute, respectable, intelligent = girlfriend material.

    Thats me though, dunno about the other guys around.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    as a girl i would say the same as barbie. if you really like a girl then you should be willing to wait for her, not just expect something straight away.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    true enough bacardi, but if a girl shows little or no interest then why should a guy bother to pursue her. Playing mind games if you do like a guy who seems interested in you is the fastest way to ensure he will move on to someone more receptive.

    And not every guy goes out just to find girls to shag for the night. Some of us want someone to care about and who cares about us in return.

    [ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: Clandestine ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Balddog:
    <STRONG>

    Sexy, slutty, loud, cheap = shags
    Cute, respectable, intelligent = girlfriend material.
    </STRONG>

    Thank you Balddog, that sound more-or-less right to me

    But don't all girls look Sexy, slutty, loud, cheap in clubs, and clubs seeming to be the most places ppls pull(try and pull), ? But i guess you only see the loud in your face girls in clubs you kind of overlook the shy girls. They are more likely going to be better gf's

    Think you will find its pretty much the opposite...If a girl shows no interest then theres more of a challenge and it becomes a quest to shag her.

    Thats not truth with me, but yeah i can see how that works with some guys,Still girls are very much like that too, even more so with gay blokes and trying to turn them back to liking woman. but thats a whole new subject.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mmm seems like there are crossed wires in the blokes and girls.

    Most men (ok I know its a sweeping statement) like their g/f to be attractive, maybe cute,respectable, intelligent etc. BUT (yes we are greedy) a slut in our bedroom (see Jerry Halls Comment). I personally wouldn't have full sex with a girl on the 1st date if I wanted to be in a relationship with her (i wouldn'thave any respect for her).
    I prefer classy women though
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I personally think a girlfriend is someone you pulled but then decided you wanted to keep seeing but hey judging my past record, i'm probably wrong what is it for you ladies when looking looking at us guys
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless:
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    But don't all girls look Sexy, slutty, loud, cheap in clubs, and clubs seeming to be the most places ppls pull(try and pull), ? But i guess you only see the loud in your face girls in clubs you kind of overlook the shy girls. They are more likely going to be better gf's.</STRONG>

    Yep..agree totally..personally ive never met a girl id actually like to date in a club...plenty of girls id like to shag but no keepers..I look elsewhere for girlfriends.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont think when a guy looks at a girl he thinks "i wanna shag her" or "i dont wanna shag her,i want her as a gf". I think that a guy finds a girl attractive and if he manages to pull her he then gets to know her. And then he decides whether she is gf material or not! but thats only my opinion and hey wot do i know?im only a girl!xXx

    [ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: Sunny_L85 ]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If a guy hasn't known you for long or doesn't know you that well, and he persure's you he probably just wants a shag

    If and guy knows you reasonably well and persues you than he probably wants a girlfriend.

    Simple!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you have been chatting for a while before the pull, then theres probably potential-- rushing straight into it means the bloke hasnt had to have put in any effort and your just easy
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