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Too rough???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Can anyone help?
My girlfriend has been asking me to get more & more rough with her over the past few months but now she is hinting at me doing things that, in my opinion, are close to sexual assault.
I'm not really OK, with this but she thinks that it's alright because she is asking me to do it.
Any ideas. This is all new to me.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sounds like fun 2 me.
    wats she asking u to do?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HEY IM FAIRLY NEW 2 THIS SO I WANNA SAY HI 2 EVERY 1! AND I THINK IT WOULD BE GR8 2 DO WHAT URE G/F SUGGEST. IT WILL BE GR8 FUN 4 HER SO Y NOT DO IT? AND SHE MIGHT RETURN THE FAVOUR!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When we were out at the wk/nd she wanted me to go home just b4 her and wait till she arrived. then she wanted me to, for want of better expression, jump her as she came in the door. She's given me the OK for anything when I start. This sounds great but I'm afraid that afterwards everything would be changed for good.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont think things will be changed for good. I think its just one way that she finds a turn on to make sex more exciting

    i say go with it

    its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok my g/f actually wanted me to pretend she
    was some1 else! And be real rough about it 2.
    I was unsure but we tried it.
    it was great! prob would b good idea not to use another name 4 her but rough by all means.
    when she come's in tell her how u want her/where u want her ie.over kit. table etc.
    ask her (if she game) to b blindfolded this will make her far more sensitive 2 touch .
    Good luck chap I would go 4 it! talk about it again b4 doing it to get an idea of what she prepared to do.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi SH

    If you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it. Tell your girlfriend why you're not happy about it, and she should understand.

    If you do go ahead with this roleplay, you could both agree on a 'safe word' beforehand. That way, if she decides she doesn't want to play any more, she can stop it by saying the safe word. The word could be your name, or 'enough' or something else you both think of together.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like that idea of a 'safe' word. Im going to suggest that to my G'friend. Maybe that way I won't feel to bad about going further than she actually wants.
    Thanks
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont do n e thing u dont want 2 it will only put a strain on the relationship!
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