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My bf wants to go all the way when I stay at his for xmas. Part of me wants to the other doesn't. Most the time I think, yeah I wanna do this but other days I have my doubts. Were both virgins. Both 17. Will have been going out 3 months by then. We have both discussed everything. I think it's my mate who's scaring me though coz she keeps saying that it really hurts and oh I dunno.
I know you can't make my mind up for me but I'd like to hear some opinions on it.
Sorry if this has been talked about b4.
I know you can't make my mind up for me but I'd like to hear some opinions on it.
Sorry if this has been talked about b4.
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2) worried about what my parents will think! even though i am almost 17
i know i love him and apart from this i really wanna do it! but i dont want to bring the subject up so im waiting 4 the right time!
but dont do it unless u feel 100% sure
lots of love
angel babe
xxx
If you don't feel that you are completely ready then don't do it! You need to feel as relaxed as possible in order for it all too feel as good as possible. If you are lying there thinking should I be doing this, am I ready then you will be tense and it will hurt. But if you are sure about doing it and you trust this guy then the experience will be much better because you will be really wanting it to happen. The earth is unlikely to move the first time but each time you do it after that it will get better and better. What you are thinking of doing will make you soo close to the guy so just be sure that he's the one you want to do it with. You first time is a big thing and you'll know when u are ready.
Hope this helps you.
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