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Hi
Dont really no what to do so thought i'd post a mesage.mI have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. Lately we have been geeting on really well and at the weekend he told he would like me to be his girlfirend and for us to get serious. I didnt say much on the subject but brought it up last night. He then said I meant what i said but im not ready yet because my life is in a mess i.e money, where he lives etc. I jjust confused i mean why say it, how can he mean if but not be ready.
Dont really no what to do so thought i'd post a mesage.mI have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. Lately we have been geeting on really well and at the weekend he told he would like me to be his girlfirend and for us to get serious. I didnt say much on the subject but brought it up last night. He then said I meant what i said but im not ready yet because my life is in a mess i.e money, where he lives etc. I jjust confused i mean why say it, how can he mean if but not be ready.
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Or mayb take a break from things and get your money problems and other things sorted first. i think maybe you should get your own life on track and in the mean time have a break from this guy, the only way you will get your own problems sorted, is if you concentrate on you and only you.