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hey guys, thanks in advance for reading this message. And i look forward to all your replies. I feel kinda embarrassed bout this but....
here goes:
im currently 17, been with my girlfriend for a month and a week although we were going out for 2 months before and been kinda seeing each other for 3 months after that. I am a virgin whilst she has had 2 sexual partners and is quite experienced.
We have both agreed that we want to have sex, and twice we should have done it but didn't. Both these occasions we have been outside in woods (i know bad location, but we keep gettin carried away lol). Well I start with an erection at first with all the foreplay, then when I start to finger her my erection goes. Then sometimes if I get an erection again I suggest we have sex and she agrees but when I take my trousers off, it goes again :banghead: . I really don't know why because I'm quite alright with the size of my manhood and I find her so beautiful and love everything about her and she has masses of sexual presence but twice we have gone to do it, I've literally been a flop.
Is there anyone out there who could offer me advice as to why this occurs please?
All advice will be greatly received
Thanks
here goes:
im currently 17, been with my girlfriend for a month and a week although we were going out for 2 months before and been kinda seeing each other for 3 months after that. I am a virgin whilst she has had 2 sexual partners and is quite experienced.
We have both agreed that we want to have sex, and twice we should have done it but didn't. Both these occasions we have been outside in woods (i know bad location, but we keep gettin carried away lol). Well I start with an erection at first with all the foreplay, then when I start to finger her my erection goes. Then sometimes if I get an erection again I suggest we have sex and she agrees but when I take my trousers off, it goes again :banghead: . I really don't know why because I'm quite alright with the size of my manhood and I find her so beautiful and love everything about her and she has masses of sexual presence but twice we have gone to do it, I've literally been a flop.
Is there anyone out there who could offer me advice as to why this occurs please?
All advice will be greatly received
Thanks
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Good Luck :yes:
'I could get caught at any minute' + 'what if I don't do it right?' = Disaster
Find a bed and take things slowly.
Exactly if you'er alone together and have time to relax and just be with each other it'll probably solve your problem.
or shower.....
We just kept trying & now he's fine! Just tell your girlfriend how you feel because that's the mistake my boyfriend made. I thought it was something to do with me so i nearly lost him early on into our relationship.
(I am kidding by all means. Using medication is the worst idea possible. Don't worry, you're normal.)
I think you hit it on the head. I was thinking that but I was so confused as to why it was happening and kinda needed reassuring.
Thanks alot everyone for your advice. It was greatly appreciated.
Cheerz :thumb: