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Love is different for males/females?
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I don't know, but it seems like I always love my girlfriends more than they love me. They say they want us to be together forever, but then leave when someone better comes along. Maybe men feel love differently than women, this explains our possessiveness. Honestly, females, would you leave your currnet mate for someone better i.e. Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Bill Gates etc...
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But until me and my ex broke i didnt realise how much i loved him. its weird how you only notice things once they have gone. if only we had realised it b4 we broke up we could have made eachother very happy... shame!!!
But anyway back to the subject, i do know what you mean
But i feel it the other way around sometimes. I feel like my boyfriend doesnt love me as much as i love him but i had a chat with him yesterday & he just said he finds it hard to express his emotions, especially when it comes to being romantic.
Seriously though with my current partner I would not leave him for anyone, because he gives me everything I need and I hope that the same applies to him. I can understand the appeal to some girls of starting a new relationship with someone if the relationship they are currently in is getting a bit "samey" but the novelty of a new relationship quickly wears off and you are back to where you started.
Really though if a girl leaves you for someone "better" I don't think it is a sign that you're not good enough or anything, just a sign of that she wasn't really happy in the relationship in the first place and it took her meeting someone else to realise that. But we aren't all like this!
Yup, couldn't agree more. I think if you always find that you 'love your girlfriends more' than maybe you are going for the wrong women?
Its often said that the one who doesnt love the other as much has all the power as dont really care wat happens. common example is men messing girls about as they re only after thir bit-
jut dont come on too strong or talk ong term or too touchy feely too early nd hopefully the reltionhip can bloom at same stage for both and create a good balance and feeling in the rel.
At least U know now instead of furher down the line
it always seems to be me having more feeling than the girls, my mates actually take the piss out of me for being so soft
Well its true,cos i always say women have two types of guys and thats the guy they are with and the guy they should be with.They seems to be looking for something but dont even know what they want. Mostly when a new and say better guy comes along they leave..(maybe they are becoming more materialistic) cos if you were so rich,they wouldnt leave you anyway.....Women stop that:)