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Okay so due to a certain scenario in our group of friends it got some of us girls thinking.
If you were dating someone a bit younger and found out that they had never slept with anyone before you would that make you more nervous than usual (baring in mind that you had been sexually active for a while).
One friend said she'd be happy as it would mean they had nothing to compare it to and therefore she'd feel more confident.
Another friend said she'd be rather daunted to be someone's first as you stay in their memory forever as their "first".
I said that i didn't quite know as on one hand you think aw it's quite sweet really and you'd be pretty honoured to be someone's first but then also i'd find it a bit daunting as you'd have to be the teacher and the dominant one.
If you were dating someone a bit younger and found out that they had never slept with anyone before you would that make you more nervous than usual (baring in mind that you had been sexually active for a while).
One friend said she'd be happy as it would mean they had nothing to compare it to and therefore she'd feel more confident.
Another friend said she'd be rather daunted to be someone's first as you stay in their memory forever as their "first".
I said that i didn't quite know as on one hand you think aw it's quite sweet really and you'd be pretty honoured to be someone's first but then also i'd find it a bit daunting as you'd have to be the teacher and the dominant one.
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But i dunno if i would feel totally comfortable with it, am a paranoid person so i would be thinking 'what if i screw up his idea of what sex is suppose to be like?'
He was really bad and it wasn't until after I broke up with him and he started seeing one of my friend's mates that I found out I'd taken his v-plates.
Although he had NO excuse for being so bad I was watching TV over his shoulder tbh.
Yes, yes, and yes again.
You never hear 'well my EX liked it that way', or 'every other girl I've slept with has loved it up the bum'. They ask what you like, and they do it the way you like it done
Guys who've been about a bit quite often (mistakenly) assume they're god's gift in the bedroom, and will not be told that their technique leaves quite a lot to be desired.
:yes: couldnt agree more