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This will probably sound really childish but i'll tell you anyway to see if anyone can help.
I went to this party last friday. Anyway this girl was sitting on her own so i went over and started to talk to her (using the charm). Abit later on we ended up dancing and after a few dances we got quite close when a slow song came on. Then as we were really getting close so stopped because people were looking and she was embarrased (mainly my mates, gobsmacked at how id managed to pull someone that was quite fit). We never really spoke because the night ended about half an hour later.
We got back to school yesterday and im not sure on how to appraoch her. She is in the year below me so we dont really any of the same people, this means its not to easy to approach. My previous girlfriend was a friend before so i didnt have this problem and i normally have enough confident but for some reason im bottlining this time.
Really how should i approach her and what should i say to her if i want this to go further.
I went to this party last friday. Anyway this girl was sitting on her own so i went over and started to talk to her (using the charm). Abit later on we ended up dancing and after a few dances we got quite close when a slow song came on. Then as we were really getting close so stopped because people were looking and she was embarrased (mainly my mates, gobsmacked at how id managed to pull someone that was quite fit). We never really spoke because the night ended about half an hour later.
We got back to school yesterday and im not sure on how to appraoch her. She is in the year below me so we dont really any of the same people, this means its not to easy to approach. My previous girlfriend was a friend before so i didnt have this problem and i normally have enough confident but for some reason im bottlining this time.
Really how should i approach her and what should i say to her if i want this to go further.
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No it was my mates that were making her embarassed because they get looking and shouting stuff.
Just say hi to her. The worse thing that can happen is that she won't be that interested in you. It's not like she'll cut your balls off. Just remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained!
Mabye that's not the best idea, it could make her embarrased and uneasy...but, you never know it could work and get her giggling.
No no no!! Just be yourself, don't try and go for all the old clichees, you end up looking slimy. But good luck though