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Sore after sex. HELP!
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Hi
Me and my boyriend have been having sex for a few weeks now and every time we do it i'm sore afterwards. Like, when i sit down, its really uncomfy and tender. Id this normal? Its not sore during it, just after.HELP!
Cheeky*
Me and my boyriend have been having sex for a few weeks now and every time we do it i'm sore afterwards. Like, when i sit down, its really uncomfy and tender. Id this normal? Its not sore during it, just after.HELP!
Cheeky*
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If it is happening hours afterwards it may be thrush, but this is normally painful rather than uncomfortable (and lasts a few days) - it's quite normally, always there and can be aggrevate by stress, the weather or sadly sex. Get to a doctor if it is and they will give you some cream to help relieve the pain.
Other than that it could be a kidney infection but that's more likely to give you stomach pains - it just needs to be flushed out so drink lots of water and cranberry juice!
Love from the ChunkyMonkey
[This message has been edited by ChunkyMonkey (edited 29-06-2000).]
Luv Cheeky*
BTW, if you go to Brook, your GP or any family planning centre they'll give you all the condoms you like FREE! Ring Brook for your nearest centre 0800 0185 023. Look after yourself...Juliet
Well, thanx 4 all ur advice, it wiz good of ye, but i dont think(and i bloody hope) its not an infection. 2day we did it 4 times in his room and it doesnt feel at all sore or uncomfy or anything now! He's the first guy i've slept wi(Well, there was another but i dont think it counts cause he was TINY, he didnt break in2 me and didnt even have it in him 2 cum! So that doesnt count at all!) NEway, cause its my first time i thought i was just gettin used 2 it, thats how it was kinda uncomfy at start but now the uncomfiness has gone as we've done it more. But, 2day he didnt cum in me(well, just 1 out of 4) i made him pull it out cause i hate it dribbling cause i've got 2 run 2 the toilet! So thats another reason it might not be so sore now. Wot do u's think?
Another thing i'm kinda worried about is pregnancy. U C we dont use condoms and i'm on the pill, but i'm on 2 the 3rd/4th of my inactive pills and ur period is meant 2 come on ur 2nd/3rd day of takin the inactive pill. I've been taking them regularly, but he's cum in me quite a lot now, so i'm kinda worried. I know sometimes u can skip periods wen ur on the pill but i think its wierd if i just skip one the very time i start sleeping wi my boyfriend A LOT. Am a really paranoid person though so do u think i've anything 2 worry about? C if u get an abortion do u have 2 get ur parents consent?
Thanx. Luv y'all
*Cheeky*
Cheers, Juliet
No, i'm not thinking of getting an abortion cause i'm not pregnant. I got my period a couple of days ago! YAY! I am happy cause it means i'm not pregnant but its a buger cause i cant shag him
! I know u think i should talk 2 someone but i hate doing that, i've phoned b4 and i feel uneasy talking 2 them. I prefer this, i just write exactly wot i say and feel, and get good advice from other people, who have their own problems that i can try and help with, so i dont feel so useless. U wouldnt want me doing something i didnt want now, would u? HE HE HE! What, r u getting sick of hearing about all my problems? Well, here's some good news, yesterday my boyfriend proposed 2 me! I'm only 15 and he's just turning 17, but we dont care, we're not planning on getting married any time soon, thats ages away, but he told me he wants 2 b wi me 4ever and he loves me and i feel exactly the same way. So, we're engaged! He bought me this gorgeous ring, i wish u could c it. I know u think we're probably 2 young, but i hope u and every1 reading this can understand and try and b happy 4 us. We've decided 2 keep it quiet, but i had 2 tell some1, and u guys r as good as NE1, u's deserve 2 know, since u've helped me so much. My best pal knows and she said wen we do get married she wants 2 b the maid of homour. I'm SO happy!
Cheers. Someone reply
CHEEKY*
Don't worry, I'm not about to judge you, I met my husband when I was 15 & he was 16 and we're doing fine (I'm ANCIENT now, of course). I know it doesn't work out for everyone, but life is yours to live...!
BUT, I still do think if you have any sex questions that don't get answered here you should call the experts!
Cheers, Juliet