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He cums so quickly

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi every1.
2nite me and my boyfriend had sex in my room. After not long he came. I thought it was a bit quick, but ignored it. Then, about an hour later, we did it again, and again he came very quickly. He wasnt gonna tell me but i asked and he said he had. He said it was just cause he was paranoid in case my mum or dad came in (i'm only 15) and thats why, but could that change how quickly it happens? Things weren't even THAT hot yet!Is there any way i can help things? We're going up 2 a wee cabin in 2 days, do u think him being more relaxed will help? I can't talk 2 him about it cause i get the feeling he's kinda embarassed about it. He came 2 or 3 times in me 2nite, and i'm on the pill but would the amount of times he came in me increase the chances of being pregnant? Please help!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I duno if this works but...........
    I read in a magazine once that if you GENTLEY pull down on his balls when he thinks he's about to lose it, it'll give ya a good couple of minutes for him to get his act together.
    The amount of times he comes in you shouldn't make any difference- as far as i know- well i hope not cos i'm in a lotta trouble otherwise!!
    Hope i helped!
    ~Jules~
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers 4 that! But wot d'ya mean "pull down on his baws"? Do u think it'll make a difference if we're sumwhere he's more relaxed? Ma pal thinks it will make a big difference! I hope so.
    Love Cheeky*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess you must be an incredibly sexy, busty female that gets him going before you've even touched him - think yourself lucky, he obviously finds you very attractive! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Love from the ChunkyMonkey

    [This message has been edited by ChunkyMonkey (edited 29-06-2000).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My guess is that if ur only 15 ur boyfriends probably not 2 old either.... n e way if he's not all that old he might not be that expierienced that makes a big difference... tolerance levels go up the more times u do it so if he hasn't had much expierience then he will cum quick.... It'll get better though if it doesn't n it's just a quick thing erm things blokes can do... think of something that's not all that nice, e.g. ugly ppl especially men.... major turn off... but my guess is that he'll get better with time.... don't be afraid to ask him 2 do stuff if ur not getting satisfied.. it's only fair...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just wanted to go back to your first message. It doesn't matter how many times he cums, you won't get pregnant, BUT you really should think about sex infections - the pill wont stop you getting those. You should use a condom to make sure you are not at any risk. If you want advice, call Brook - they will answer all your sex questions privately, and the number wont show on your bill. Their number is 0800 0185 023. Hope this helps, Juliet
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi!
    I was wi my boyfriend 2day and we were having sex in his room. He came twice, after not long of each way. There's one way that seems 2 make him cum quickest, him doin it fae behind me(but not up the arse) Does NE1 else really enjoy that position? I really like it but when he cums, its really annoying cause it dribbles down my leg!
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