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Am I a lesbian?
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I am an 18 year old girl and the other night I went out to the local pub with my friend and her boyfriend. We had a really good time and ended up getting really drunk, so at closong time we decided all to go back to my friends flat. There we were, three of us sitting in the living room, I was sitting on my friends knee, which is pretty normal for girly friends, but the next thing I know we were kissing and not just a peck, I mean really deep kisses. Her boyfriend then suggested a threesome which in my drunken state I excepted but I was just really turned on by that kiss, but I have always found the fought of kissing another female like that as disgusting but now I feel it was self denial. Anyway my friend undressed me while her boyfriend undressed himself and we all got into a bit of a sexual frenzy but I can rememer that I jst could not take my hands off of my friend and in fact I let her perform oral sex on me while her boyfriend watched and played with himself, and it resulted in the biggest orgasm I have ever had!! To top it all off I can't stop thinking about it and now my boyfriend is asking questions to why I am acting so strangely!<P class="body">Please help!
Jessy
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Maybe you were just drunk and that made you loose your inhibitions. Maybe you are bisexual. Maybe you are a lesbian who has so far just followed convention and therefore denied her own sexuality.
I can't tell, and I think nobody can. You will have to be honest to yourself and your feelings, and accept that you are what you are - even if you are a perfectly straight girl who tried somethng new.
I am bisexual, and only found out because I explored my feelings as they developed.
Good luck and strength.
Hopefully you have some realy good friends who'd understand if you told them how you felt when you went clubbing. However, you can never be too sure on how people will react!
I'm gay and had real difficulties accepting it. I made some really great friends who are in fact lesbians - but I only found that out when I confided in them. I knwo you hardly know me but if you wanna chat, just e-mail me: craigab@hotmail.com. From there on I can give you my mobile number or give you some helplines - they do help!
If you decide to tell people you're a lesbian or bisexual (it may not be for a while yet or may be never) please be careful - we still live in a homophobic society - not to scare you though!
Keep Smiling!
Are you a Woman... or some perverted version of one?
Don't let yourself be corrupted by scumbags who only want drag you down to their level. Sounds like that's what these "friends" of yours are! Of course, you can solve the problem of them using you by you using them.
Trust me, it's a dead end.
Then where do we draw the line? Are you a hypocrite or DON'T you object to paedophilia?
you are a bigoted sicko mr. horse. why r u polluting this site with your ill informed, repressed views?
what are u afraid of?
what is so scary about something that's different from u?
is there something about yorself that u don't like/ can't accept?
are u gay?
Horse actually came up with a valid point there - comparing paedophilia to homosexuality. And, to a point, he is correct, as they are both sexual orientations which define a person or group of people. The difference is, however, that gays can consent to sex, with both parties agreeing. Paedophilia is different, as in many cases the children are too young to understand whats going on. Hopefully, Horse, you will read this and understand that there is a CLEAR LINE between the morals of gay people and paedophiles.
Fish.
I agree with freedom of speech, but Horse is just a prat!
This sort of homophobic comments are simply not of this age!
What would you say if I would write that all drug addict should be locked up and all dealers executed?
When I told a friend I was bi, she told my whole bloody school, and not all of the pupils are accepting, but I just ignore them, it's none of their business!
Horse, who the fuck are you to tell her that she isn't a proper woman because of her sexual orientation?
You are a biggoted piece of Nazi shit and after reading just one of your posts, I decided I didn't like you, and I am never usually so quick to judge!
C'est pour mon usage personnel, Officier!
Being a warm blooded male and lesbian myself, I feel I'm completely unqualified to answer your concern. However, a close friend of mine experienced a similar event and her next 9 months were a complete exploration of her female side. It was, to her, natural and wonderful and a phase she wanted to experience and explore before reverting back to "stereotype". Just do your thing and don't worry about it. Life is less fun if you look back and regret NOT doing things.
urm, I disagree, I know a few homosexual people and there is nothing wrong with them, they are just the same as everyone else with different sexual fantasies!
Jessy, if you enjoyed it, why worry?