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Going through adolescent years questioning your sexuality? I'm now happy with mine and I'm definately gay! I couldn't come to terms with it at first - I didn't fit that 'gay image'. Then I got on-line and met a couple of guys who were great...both personality and the physical side (but I won't give you the details!). Many questions went around over in my mind - would I be safe? Who would find out? WOuld I be rejected? Am I happy? And it was admitting it to myself that made me finally happy! Telling a few close friends helped me immensely - they're so supportive. A bit of advice - if you're questioning your sexuality - talk to someone! - a close friend, a youth worker, or support worker. I did and I haven't had one negative response. I'm not open to everyone about my sexuality as why is it important for them to know? - so they can gossip? If you are questioning- be safe, there's a lot of people who just want you as a sex object - but that's the same with any sexuality!
"Open your mind to change, but don't let go of your values"
"Open your mind to change, but don't let go of your values"
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"Open your mind to change, but don't let go of your values"
You stink!
Bad Boy Pete
Pete, you've been given so many chances to participate on these boards in a civil way - and you keep on blowing it.
Everyone who uses these boards agrees to not
"post any material which is defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, threatening..."
We don't want to stop people saying whatever they want here, but this sort of hatefulness just isn't on.
By bye Pete.
btw - Anyone think this is the wrong decision?
Nothing wrong with a heated discussion, but this guy is plain abusive. And all that attention-seeking and play-acting is getting a bit dull, isn't it?
Won't miss ya.
Mickey
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The sooner we get rid of people who cannot behave themselves, the better! There is a very wide gap between freedom of speech and the kind of language used by Pete!
Good riddance
Everytime I read one of his replies I wanna break his computer. There is a way to express your feelings on matters and he just aint got a clue! Keep up the good work Dom!!
and if he wants have a go in future please leave god out of it. thank you. i hope not to hear from you on these boards again.
I feel kinda sorry for craig that his original topic has been taken over by the pete'bashing, but hey-ho ... i think the line that pissed me off most was that which suggested gay guys are 'disease spreaders' - well i don't know if you know, but according to recent studies, more straight people are HIV+ than gay people. In this way homophobic rantings like pete's may have helped, cause gay guys became worried enough that the majority decided not to take risks and now have safe sex. Unfortunately stupid rantings made a lot of straight people think that they're not at risk, and therefore didn't need to play it safe, and so positions have reversed. I don't think anyone deserves to end up with such an awful thing, but i think pete's comments are unjust and innacurate.
Craig-what you did takes a lot of courage. I wish you nothing but happiness.
I'm currently organising a residential about issues that affect young people and sexuality is one of the topics I'm tutoring about. If anyone has any stories about coming out or why they can't come out etc. please give me a bell - reply to this topic or send an e-mail: craigab@hotmail.com
Cheers all! :-)
I'm gay and proud dammit! :yippe:
This was posted on my 14th birthday! I was in Menorca with my friend and her family! Wow that was ages ago!
There has not been a gay thread done in 5 1/2 years? Bogus. Thats like saying there hasn't been an anal sex thread done in 5 1/2 years.
How come gay people get so excited about being gay? You never hear a straight person knotting their panties over it. (well except for the weirdo anti-everything bible thumpers, but they dont' count.)
It's possibly a record.
You can tell this is old.
Dom's posting.
AND being civil;)