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Sex with the older man!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Is it just me, or does anyone else think it's a real turn on to sleep with older men? I really do! I had an affair with my psych teacher, and he was 40! he was the best sex i've ever had!!!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't , but then I'm a (straight) boy.<P class="body">Can I infer that this means you would go for:
    1. Kevin COstner
    2. Pierce Brosnan
    3. Sean Connery
    ???<P class="body">I think it works the other way too, guys can go for older women. We've all seen the graduate after all.<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No1 None of them! I like Richard Gere, Bruce willis, etc!
    What older women do you go for then? I'm intrigued!

    Katy xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Um... I dunno...<P class="body">Maybe...um, nope can't think of any right now. Any suggestions?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about Madonna??
    i'd have sex with her!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yup, I wouldn't throw madonna outr of bed for farting.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Katy!:
    Is it just me, or does anyone else think it's a real turn on to sleep with older men? I really do! I had an affair with my psych teacher, and he was 40! he was the best sex i've ever had!!!
    <P class="body">What about a fifty-year old?<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I totally agree Katy, older men definately know what we want.

    xxx Mia xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm Glad you agree! Yeah, I'd probably say yes to a fifty year old! Why, are you offering???
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I might be, Katy. How old are you?<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am 18. How old R U?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So what is so appealing about Maddonna then?

    Katy xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am 51. I like younger women.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, it seems we have a lot in common! What do you like in a younger woman? What do u look like? what do u do?

    Katy xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Katy!:
    Well, it seems we have a lot in common! What do you like in a younger woman? What do u look like? what do u do?<P class="body">check your mailbox<P class="body">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is just so f***ing sordid.<P class="body">What is a 51 year old man doing cruising around a youth site anyway?<P class="body">You sound like a pervert, preying on the young and inexperienced.<P class="body">Get lost, creep
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    'Old' is when you are nearly three times the age of the person you are trying to shag
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with u Reded. I'd watch it Katy! seriously. Anamcara sounds like he'd have u dressed up in your old school uniform the way his perverted mind works. Pack it in and find a website suited to someone your own age!<P class="body">Personally, I do like to have an older man... but not someone 30 years older than me!!! They're much more experienced and show u a bit of consideration rather than just thinking about getting themselves turned on!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    About the older guy thing... Well I ended a relationship with a 33 year old bloke a couple of months ago. I'd been seeing him since I was 18 and he was 29. At first I thought he was mature, sophisticated etc, etc... BUT after he messed me around and cheated on me over 3 and a half years of immature, non-committal behaviour I realised he only went out with me because he was incapable of having a normal, mature relationship with someone his own age, who might occassionally question his pathetic behaviour. He's now balding, tubby and seeing an unwitting 19 year old girl, and I'm 21, single and loving it! (Thank god!!)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Katy!:
    Is it just me, or does anyone else think it's a real turn on to sleep with older men? I really do! I had an affair with my psych teacher, and he was 40! he was the best sex i've ever had!!!
    Katy you are asking for trouble!I am an older man and take it from me 9 times out of 10 you are just being used.I have a teenage daughter and I would hate to think of her being used in this way.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Katy!:
    Is it just me, or does anyone else think it's a real turn on to sleep with older men? I really do! I had an affair with my psych teacher, and he was 40! he was the best sex i've ever had!!!
    <P class="body">
    A Psychology teacher should know better!! Where are his ethics and morals!! HAHA Now who sounds like an old man and I am only 30!!<P class="body">The trouble is, there is no emotional stability when the age difference is so large and the potential for abuse is greatly increased (e.g. experienced person using the inexperienced).
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hey Katy, you sound like somebody who is not messed up at all, as one of my friends put it. You just know what you like. But do you really want an older man or just somebody who knows what he's doing?

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have to say Katy sex with older men is great if you're lucky enough to get one who knows what he's doing - but just cause they are older does not always mean that they will be great in the sack. Having a relationship with someone older is a different kettle of fish though, cause how can u possibly have anything in common with someone who is 10 or more years older than u? People that do r usually hung up on some father son/daughter thing and this is a really scary basis for any type of relationship.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have been going out with a older man now for almost a year and we met through work last year when i went back to 6th form we never thought it would work with him living in London and me in suffolk. But it has done so we don't see each other all the time but it works. The sex is great as he does know what he's doing and it much easier to approach the subject when the sex is good. However this bloke that is after Katy does sound a bit sick he's 51! which to me is a bit old and i'd agree thats its her choice who she likes.

    Lawz

    [This message has been edited by lawz (edited 09-06-2000).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just to let u all know, I am not interested whatsoever with that 51 year old creep!

    Katy xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Um Katy I think the bloke was having a laugh u no? I dont think he sounds like the kinda man who would jujmp in with you. I would give hima brak guys mind u i agree with the fact that this is a youth site
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I must say, I think the older bloke thing is a bit pants. Basically, they're podgier, wrinklier and (in general) huge bastards. I was going out with this bloke who was 35 (but when we met he said he was 25, so even he thought his age was a problem!) Basically it was crap. In every respect (the words "weiner" and "bleached acorn" come to mind) and in retrospect the whole relationship was absolute shite. Despite the fact that it was he that dumped me, whenever I see him around now he's still trying to get me into bed! Maybe desperation increases with age.

    p.s. Someone's nicked my nick!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    umm, 35? That's old? Holy crap, i'm 33 and apparently about to kick the bucket by that estimation! Crud, life's so unfair. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    And BTW, i happen to work out constantly, and have an excellent body if i do say so myself (normally i would never claim such a thing in public as it's conceited, but this is necessary as a response to your generalization <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; )

    Anyway, please don't write everyone over thirty off as some people are just hitting their stride about 30-35. You may be surprised when you arrive at that ripe old age yourself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    BTW, i am smiling and of good humour as i write all these words. Best wishes!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i slept with my girlfriends 37 year old mother before. she completely fucked my brains out and even sawllowed if u know what i mean
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, right Tk2, think we're just fantasising a tad here? And if you're not why on earth is your girlfriend going out with you?!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi,
    I also find older guys a turn-on, but i DO NOT find OLD guys a turn-on! I'm 16, i think guys up to about 30 can be really sexy, but much over that makes me feel sick! The thought of suckin some 40/50 year-old pervert's saggy baws makes me wanna whitey! But every1 has different views. My boyfriend is older by 2/3 years but he's still good in bed(Probably better than all those worn-out old cunts!)

    Oh, and by the way could some of u PLEASE send me a reply on my topic "He cums so quickly" , i'm gettin fuckin desperate now

    Thanx.
    Luv ya all
    *Cheeky*
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