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Pain While Fingering a Girl?
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While stimlulating my gf after about 1-2 min she complains of a 'pain' in her stomach. She discribes it as her muscles contracting, but it hurts after a few moments. Sometime she says it hurts like she has to pee or cramps... Any suggestions? Whats going on? Is this 'pain' perhaps something normal that she hasnt experienced? I just want to give her a little pleasure in return every now and then.
She has never done anything herself, nor has anyone else tried. Just me, so it is new to her.
Thx
She has never done anything herself, nor has anyone else tried. Just me, so it is new to her.
Thx
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When I saw the title I thought, how can anyone get pain when fingering a girl? what is it, finger cramps?
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dunno what it could be though. maybe u just have REALLY long fingers...........sorry thats not funny *LOL* <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
Maybe it's the dirt underneath the fingernails? Could be causing a rash down there <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
Aww, thanx sexy, I'll stop being cynical now.
It could be that she isnt aroused enough before you insert your finger. Make sure shes wet 'downstairs', and also wet your fingers with your mouth. Dont just dive straight in with a whole fist, take things gently and it might stop hurting her.
Sorry bout not gettin much response from ur question, but most of the ppl on here wud rather take the piss outta us instead of tryin to help.Point of them being on this??who knows! <IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0">
Anyway i reckon ur girlfs probably really nervous and tensing the muscles.Thats why its hurting.U will just have to try n make her feel as ralaxed as possible.It shud get easier wiv time.
Hope it sorts itself out!
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Just take things slowly, make sure she's warmed up and relaxed b4 u do anything. And be gentle, remember your trying to give her pleasure, - not looking for a set of keys or whatever u blokes seem to think u'll find up there!!
If it hurts, stop try something else - like oral - the tounge is gentler than fingers and its already wet - always helps!!
And if it still hurts after practice maybe she should see a doctor.
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but if not and its nice and sloppy down there well this is the start of her path to heaven...its just a different muscle...instead of her legs that are respondin too ur oh so nice touchin..let her just take a big breath out and or god sake carry on she;ll get loads more of em b4 bamn she is on top of the world!
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maybe she actually needed to piss. thats not a joke. or she might have had indigestion. or she might go very weird wen aroused. but if it is ur fingers causing her pain then try going down on her, its a lot of fun oh btw im male (not female)
Or perhaps you are tugging at her hymen, that can be painful (I`m crossing my legs)!!!
Or perhaps you are tugging at her hymen, that can be painful (I`m crossing my legs)!!!
[ 17-01-2002: Message edited by: king of the k0p ]
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However, as already pointed out, you may need to get professional advice; some helplines that provide confidential services can be found here: http://www.thesite.org/info/helplines/ .
I'm sure between yourself, your girl and perhaps with some professional advice, (if needed), you'll be able to work this out.
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