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Relationships with friends
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I'm having mixed feelings about someone I know right now. I really like her and love her personality and we've become good friends.
She's part of the group I'm in and that makes things complicated. I asked one of the other girls out a while ago and she refused and pretty much went cold on me for the next 2 months. I really don't want to make that mistake again, apart from looking like a total loser but I don't want a chance like this to pass me by. She also went out witha friend of mine but I dont think that would bother either of us since he says he wasn't ready for a relationship and ended it months and months ago.
She's part of the group I'm in and that makes things complicated. I asked one of the other girls out a while ago and she refused and pretty much went cold on me for the next 2 months. I really don't want to make that mistake again, apart from looking like a total loser but I don't want a chance like this to pass me by. She also went out witha friend of mine but I dont think that would bother either of us since he says he wasn't ready for a relationship and ended it months and months ago.
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Its annoying when stuff like this happens. I hate people knowing who I fancy and trying to do things. Its like, they all know something I and the other person don't. :banghead:
Well if she knows and hasn't mentioned it then she could
a)be too shy, b)not reciprocate these feelings or c)unsure what to do.
If this friend has hinted, then I'd imagine that the girl knows, or at least has an incling. Maybe you could talk to her some more, and TRY to get alone time. Maybe go somewhere with your friend, and the girl, and maybe another person. Get the friend and other person to go off for a minute..so its just you and the girl together..?
Don't get too hung up on your best friends