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I want some advice about something. I am dating this girl, we have been dating for the past 2 weeks, I don't want anything long-term but she seems to be looking for something like that. Generally I tend not to introduce girls I'm seeing to my friends and let them hang out together until I have been seeing the girl for a while. But whenever this girl finds out I am going to hang out with my friends, she always texts me and asks me what am I doing that night etc etc but she is obviously hinting to be invited out, but I don't really want to because I really just want to chill with my mates, and I have already promised to take her out on another night.
Am I asking for a little too much, to have time to hang out with mates and time for her separately? When I'm comfortable with her and we have been going out for a while then I wouldn't mind taking her with me, but both of us have only been dating for 1-2 weeks. Or should I let her?
Help :banghead:
Am I asking for a little too much, to have time to hang out with mates and time for her separately? When I'm comfortable with her and we have been going out for a while then I wouldn't mind taking her with me, but both of us have only been dating for 1-2 weeks. Or should I let her?
Help :banghead:
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Yeah, give her the option to get out now, before she gets involved too deeply, as a lot of women tend to do!