Can u not be gay but do things with guys?

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  what sort of a question is that ? you play with other blokes cocks then you're gay / bisexual in my book

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  http://www.thesite.org/info/relationships/sexuality/exploring_your_sexuality.html

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  Originally posted by playwithfire:
  <STRONG>what sort of a question is that ? you play with other blokes cocks then you're gay / bisexual in my book</STRONG>

  
  
  Well thats your book. But the fact is loads of guys I know do it and some of em are engaged!!

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  Ok..I am gay and have known since my early teen years....I experimented with school friends as most males have at one time or the other,whether they admitt it openly on to themselves is a different matter,especially if they go onto have happy married lives and never look back.
  Just because you have had an experiance of what is probably school boy experimental times doesn't mean you are gay.
  Believe me you will know if you are gay or not deep down,its just a case of coming to terms with what you want out of life and is all part of lifes rich tapestry.
  Good luck with your search within yourself and i hope you find what you want. <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  If you enjoy holding another guys todger, then you might be gay; if you enjoy the feeling of someone else holding your todger then that says nothing. Jerking off while snogging leans toward the non-straight.
  
  I've done "mutual masturbation" with women, but got no pleasure from my act beyond the pleasure of giving pleasure. Enjoyed receiving at the same order of pleasure as going solo. According to some this is "bisexual" but I wouldn't agree

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  Doesnt really make you gay no. A lot of teens are unsure about their sexuality, and 'experiment' with people of their own sex. If you really fancy blokes exclusivey, then youll prolly be gay, but if you fancy blokes and girls youll be bi, and so on (other way round for girls lmao).
  
  When ur older youll know better...for now dont worry, just enjoy it <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0"> Dont rush into saying youre inclined one way or t'other.

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  why do you need a label? I think you should be whatever you want to be!

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  I agree with Openup, I classed byself as Bisexual for over 2 years moving more recently (When I came to NZ) to being 'Open Minded' so I can do what I want with who I want and not get the stigma...
  
  I am Bisexual, that I know, but everyone else doesn't need to, hense being open-minded... heh
  
  Theres nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality, hell if you feel like it sleep with that person (use protection tho obviously) and who cares what other people think...
  
  As a mate of mine said (seriously canned 2 weeks ago) "Do what you do, because you are you"
  
  <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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• Former Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

  December 2001

  my theory is, if u don't try it u'll never know, so theres nothing wrong with trying it out. If it becomes a part of ure regular life, like u'd rather do that than the same with a girl, then ure probably on the gay side. But like someone else said, u don't need labels.

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