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getting even
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So like I'll make it as short as I can I found out that my bf cheated on me like two or three times with the same girl. So I wanted to get even so I gave this one guy that I know my bf doesn't like a blowjob cuz I knew that it would get back to him. So when he found out we got in a big fight and broke up which I figured would happen but now I feel terrible and like a cheap slut.
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Although i do agree that you was very pissed off with him, i would be.
You should of just told him to fuck off in the first place.
"Getting back at"
Not worth it, and you've found out the hard way.
G.
(Sorry your boyfriend cheated on you)
Is this Vicky Pollard?
As for your fella, kick him in the bollocks and telll him to fuck off. Your a mug if you take him back.
I agree that it is a childish and immature thing to do, giving someone else a blow job just to get back at your bf (now ex) is kinda bad, what you would have been best in doing was just finnishing with him.
Think of it this way, if someone cheats on you, and you 'get revenge' then you are only showing yourself up - letting the original person (being the gf / bf who cheated on u) that you care, wheter you cared or not, if you don't show it then a) you wont feel as bad and b) he / she will feel worse!
Sorry for the lack of confidence and agreeing with everyone else that it was a stupid thing to do, but next time, maybe go about things a different way!?
As long as you laugh him off now, and any future comments when he brings that up dont be offended by them. Just think how its done now, and you cant change it. If you didnt like how it made you feel, you'll know not to do it again!!
DOnt worry about him, he's obv not worth it. Sorry you got cheated on tho. If u see him out, try not to show your hurt by him. Make it obvious what a great time you are having without him!
the best way to get back at a bloke who treats you like that is to hold your head high and get on with your own life in a positive way.
Grow up about it, talk to him rather than making the whole situation worse for yourself.
Sorry but I was thinking and I wanted to just mention one more thing. He did really hurt my feelings I mean this guy was only the 2nd guy I have ever slept with and I did things with him that I never would have thought I would do sexually. I mean I loved him well I still do and I thought he loved me so I completely opened up for him. I was just so hurt and pissed at the same time that I did what I did. I know that doesn't condone it though. But now I'll just move on. Thanks again.