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meeting him
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my bf went to meet his son last night...and fell in love.
does anyone know any message boards where i can talk to people in the same situation? i asked on my last thread but no-one answered.its so difficult and it hurts me so much.
does anyone know any message boards where i can talk to people in the same situation? i asked on my last thread but no-one answered.its so difficult and it hurts me so much.
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just never expected him to be a dad without me being the mum.i find it hard to deal with.
if you have a 4 year relationship thats got 2 mean something.. I've known a few lads that hav kids wiv another woman but that doesnt mean he gna stop loving you.. i know its painful knowing the 1 nyt stand turned into something it shudnt hav.. but dont get jelous.. that'l just tear you apart more
You are not nothing. Yes she has had his child but... you have him and his love and can have as many children as you like... sorry to ask but are you both 100% sure its his?
they cant do dna testing until he's 4months old anyway and it will cost at least £200.
i really don't think it isn't his,as much as i would like him not to be the dad.
As for the message boards, afraid not