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What do u see sex as 2day?
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i was talkin 2 sum one who isnt goin 2 sleep wiv her b/f til marriage n i was shocked but thats her oponion
personally now adays i dont think sex is that much of a bigthing i mean look at the people who go 2 spain n shag on the beach just wonderin how important peeps see sex these days....
yer i wouldnt sleep with sum1 the first day i met but now i dont think id wait that long
p.s im not a slut mayb a bit horny but....
a stroke of luck or a gift from god?the hand of fate or devils claws?from below or saints above?
personally now adays i dont think sex is that much of a bigthing i mean look at the people who go 2 spain n shag on the beach just wonderin how important peeps see sex these days....
yer i wouldnt sleep with sum1 the first day i met but now i dont think id wait that long
p.s im not a slut mayb a bit horny but....
a stroke of luck or a gift from god?the hand of fate or devils claws?from below or saints above?
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Who's name does God use in vain?
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
different from my social group - people here see sex still as something fun, but still special and still have respect for it. if u've had sex, well done but ur still the same person.
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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However, i still dont see sex as merely a source of pleasure, sex is special and i think that it should be with someone you love. But then not everyone finds sum1 special and everyone has sexual urges so on the other hand one nite stands can solve the urge problem.......oh damn i dont have a clue what my point/s are!!!!!!
but thats my way of thinking and although I have no problem with other ppls views i just can not understand how these views were formed
Oh well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
I think a lot of it has something to do with the media, constant images of sex on TV have desensitised a lot of people into thinking sex isnt important or meaningful anymore, this is a shame as i think sex can be brilliant when you are with someone you love, because you aren't pressured to perform any differently and you feel more at ease with yourself and your partner.
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
I don't know what my viewpoint would be if my life hadn't run to this point the way it did. But right now, I'm confused. I mean, sometimes, I see sex as something just meaningless and I don't even want it, or I feel like it wouldn't matter who I slept with coz I ain't worth nething neway.
But um.. coz I'm with somebody, and he's v special, I guess I want to wait, coz I want it to be right. I want to be able to look back and know that when it happened, I was completely ready and comfortable with the situation.
I guess that alot of issues to do with your opinion of sex, depend on your opinion of yourself etc
Please somebody tell me this made sense!!
honey help me out of this mess..i'm a stranger to myself..
If someone wants to wait until their wedding night, I think it's great. I have friends who are doing that. In fact, I half-wish I had. But it definitely should be with a person you love. I don't agree with just going out and sleeping with someone you picked up in a bar (or on a Spanish beach *lol*), but that's my opinion and I don't have a problem with people who do that.
Society's changed a lot. Let's not forget that religiously speaking, sex is supposed to be reserved for marriage. That's the whole point of it. But I read somewhere in a newspaper survey that only 9% of people in this country class themselves as religious, go to church regularly, and think relgious beliefs are important.
So I would say that has a lot to do with it! Fewer people are interested in God, and therefore see sex in a different light.
How things have changed. Not necessarily for the better, either.
Chica, you old hypocrite!
I think that makes perfect sense Kayleigh <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Sometimes I think I'd just like to lose my virginity in a one night stand, but only if I didn't have to remember the act itself, because like Persil said, "Cheap meaningless casual sex is not something I could do"....
well it's not something I'd want to remember doing, and definitely not something I'd want to make a habit of.
Ideally I would leave it until I was engaged, probably not the wedding night though because if you set a date and hype it up like that it's more likely to be a disappointment. But as long as it was with someone I love, even a one night stand would be fine by me.
[This message has been edited by wildchild (edited 29-04-2001).]
i dont see sex as something you should only share with one person (if i did id be pretty screwed.. oops excuse the pun)... i think its part of a loving relationship, you dont have to be in love but i think that if i had a one night stand with someone, especially to lose my virginity, i would build up hopes and expectations of it being more than that and meeting the guy again or something.
i dont think anyone should feel pressured to get rid of their virginity, sort of like you sound you feel wildchild. you should just wait until you feel comfortable and ready with a person to sleep with them. okay you migh not remember every detail about losing your virginity, i know i dont, but i know it was with someone i loved and trusted and was comfortable with. i was reayd after 5 months id say in that relationship, it was my first relationship of any kind. we didnt sleep together until after 10 months, but thats another story. but with my current boyfriend we had only really been together for 2 days before we slept together. it was his first time too.
so i think it depends on the relationship, as to how long you wait, and the person... just because you have sex with one person it doesnt mean you have to have sex with the next within the same amount of time or less or whatever, you can be ready with one person but not another, i thought that when i read that post by helly just now.
id never thought oh ill only have one or maybe 2 sexual partners, i had the idea id sleep with more people than that and never held it as an ideal or something that should be svaed for one person. but i believe that its something special to be shared with someone you're close to.
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Burn baby burn!
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when is completely up to you. the person i love wants to wait for marriage, and because i'm in love, it's worth waiting for. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
sorry for the afterschool special opinion. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
shuddup you. he went home at 3pm anyway <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
Burn baby burn!
Lustful Sex and Loving Sex...
Lustful Sex is non-comitted, one night stand sort of style.. and Loving is with someone who you love and is a lot slower possibly more sensual.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Nice to see im not the only one who doesnt agree with going out shagging everynight as nice as though it may be.