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To plz or not 2 plz?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Im new so i'll make it quick. Im going out with this girl and shes well nice and that (if only i could show a pic). They other day we were in the park and i was getting well aroused and that and started fingering her. She told me, not being vain or anything, that i was her best. I failed to find her g spot. What the fuck, excuse my french does it feel like cos i know where it is but dont know how to stimulate it at all. Also, for some reason, this may sound stupid, i was scared that i wouldnt get a hard on when it came to her giving me a blow job that same nite. I sound like a bit of a porn star at the moment but i was so scared that she wouldnt be able to give me head if i didnt have a boner and the result was was me not getting one. Newaze, last saturday i got a fat one and she gave me a bjob in my room whilst my parents and younger brother was downstairs. Yurrah i felt. Cutting a long story short, at the age of 16, i feel as a teenager heading towards adulthood that its my duty to please the girlies to give a good rep. So what i ask is, is there any other ways in which i can please my new girlfriend apart from fingering, and kissing. I aint moved onto sex yet or giving head. Anyone got any tips on giving head. Spelling out the alphabet was one suggestion. Also, the nite i couldnt get it up, i was stoned out of my head as well as pissed and prang. Cheers, as many replies as possible needed.

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    the g spot is at the front of the vagina, inside and a couple of inches up. apparently it feels slightly rougher than the surrounding tissue, and you have to apply quite firm pressure to stimulate it as its quite deep inside the tissues.

    i think you'd be better off aiming for the clitoris. its got loads of nerve endings in and is very sensitive, so sensitive in fact that many girls can only be stimulated through the hood protecting it. but if you want to really turn her on, then stuff like kissing, touching her breasts, stroking her body with fingertips, stuff like that, will hopefully lead to her becoming wet, in which case touching her clitoris will be a great feeling.

    a website thats been suggested before might help you... www.the-clitoris.com

    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This may sound well stupid right but i do all that as a regular routine. I hadnt read what to do or anything and made it up as i went along. She likes being touched especially when i run my hand down her back, to her bum then reached her flange. She loves it. Also, the bud of the flange as well. If you tickle the top of the flange, my girlfriend gets well turned on. But your advice is well accepted mate. Cheers
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Girl-From-Mars:


    a website thats been suggested before might help you... www.the-clitoris.com



    I bet that site and the penis one are enjoying all these new hits from thesite posters

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That was a proper shite site im sorry to say. What about tips on kissing. I know how to kiss and my girlfriend loves the way i kiss but i want to do it more erotically if you know what i mean. I do have talent for this sort of thing but i dont wanna do some thing finking its erotic when it turns out to be totally anticlimax shite. Sorry ladies and gentleman for the strong french. Exams coming up soon and i aint revised one bit for them and im well stressed.Tooo bad there aint any exam posts and topics about. Lata potata boys.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry, maybe u dont mean to sound it, but ur well up yourself, anywayz i cant give u actual advice as im in a similar boat. but i just thought id point that out, dont hate me.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    sorry, maybe u dont mean to sound it, but ur well up yourself, anywayz i cant give u actual advice as im in a similar boat. but i just thought id point that out, dont hate me.

    lol yeah, i soooooooooo know what you mean, i thought it myself.

    smiffy if you want to know what your gf enjoys... if its not obvious, then ask her.
    Burn baby burn!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just ask her, really. It's hard for girls to direct boys and tell them what to do, but if you ask her then she may become a bit more open and let you in on it..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    sorry, maybe u dont mean to sound it, but ur well up yourself, anywayz i cant give u actual advice as im in a similar boat. but i just thought id point that out, dont hate me.

    Shit. You think he is? Sorry ladies and gentleman for the strong french.

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    Just done a banging shit. Won't flush. You might have to push it down
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by chrishot4u:
    sorry, maybe u dont mean to sound it, but ur well up yourself, anywayz i cant give u actual advice as im in a similar boat. but i just thought id point that out, dont hate me.

    OMG...tell em bout it.....i already dislkie him....sorry mate you're probably great 'n' everything but stop apologisig and all. All you have to do to be liked is be honest......
    It's not as though any of us care about what YOUR like in that sense....

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