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Few questions...
1. How good do blowjobs feel, really?
2. Any other girls who can't stand guys going down on them? I absolutely hate it for a whole bunch of reasons, am I just odd?
3. Why in the name of all the gods do certain males wish to go down on a lady when she's on? Sex I can just get my head around but oral during a period just seems really :yuck:
1. How good do blowjobs feel, really?
2. Any other girls who can't stand guys going down on them? I absolutely hate it for a whole bunch of reasons, am I just odd?
3. Why in the name of all the gods do certain males wish to go down on a lady when she's on? Sex I can just get my head around but oral during a period just seems really :yuck:
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I like oral rougher... I like to feel it.
I've only been involved in that area, TBH, never gone all the way. But to me, the period = No. Eugh. Not for me.
You are not weird for not liking people go down on you. Some people just don't like it. IMO you certainly aren't odd.
I used to like being licked out but went off it suddenly... maybe it was being done wrong or i just didnt like it, but maybe that'll change one day....
i used to hate giving blow jobs as i hated the taste of cum and when it all slimes in your mouth i even used to heave at the thought of pre-cum... now though i dont mind it. when i see their face with all that excitment it gives me a sort of pleasure and power
i agree; i think perhaps your man didn't take his time whilst munching on you, exploring and enjoying every kissable bit. yum! i love giving oral even just a wee bit more than receiving. it's an art, i think. :yippe:
as for doing it during that time of the month, i think not, unless a woman really wants it.
Sex on a period isnt that bad, my gf just puts a towel down, but going down thats nasty... find u endin up eatin bits of tomato.. eww!
Not on the heaviest day or two, but the other days of that week, she'll shower, put in a tampon, and I'll lick her. If you stay around the clit, it's no big deal.
Then once she cums, she pulls the tampon out, we throw a towel down, and go at it.
I certainly wouldn't have done this with just anyone when I was single, but with a committed partner, I don't think it's a big deal.
1. Great if she actually knows how to do it.
2. Your missing out, alot.
3. Never have done and never will do. It's disgusting.
1.dont know im not a man,but i sure as hell love giving them.
2.maybe you need the right experience,not odd at all thougH!
3. :yuck:
Depends, can be bad. however, my most intense orgasm ever was as a result of an amazing blow job.
2. Any other girls who can't stand guys going down on them? I absolutely hate it for a whole bunch of reasons, am I just odd?
Been there. Never understood why she didn't like it, but hey, her loss I suppose. Some women have "self esteem" issue about it apparently...
3. Why in the name of all the gods do certain males wish to go down on a lady when she's on? Sex I can just get my head around but oral during a period just seems really
Don't know. Vampires?
agree with this. if you are this close, it's not a problem,
as long as you're clean, then it's all good. whether or not you feel like it is a different matter. if you're PMTed to the eyeballs and aching all over, then no sex will be fun.
And as Aimz said about feelings of pleasure and power if you're going down on a guy, then yeah I like that lots and lots, I enjoy giving head, but I can't enjoy receiving it, not because of any lack of skill on the guy's part, but because I'm lying there trying to enjoy it and all I'm getting running aorund my head is "Ugh, that must be so horrible, he really *can't* enjoy doing that..."
1. really good Although towards the end, a guy will be so stimulated the difference in sensation between the mouth and a well lubricated hand will not be great. still feels amazing though, very good foreplay :thumb:
2. non- applicable, but I guess It would have to be to do with lack of self confidence when it comes down to it
3. :yuck: very yucky... using the fingers carefully is ok though, I seem to remember that girls are more sensitve down there when their on their periods... but there's no way I'd give oral while someone was on their period :yuck:
Just like you ENJOY giving head to guys, there are guys who LOVE to lick pussy.
Sure, there will be guys who just do it so that you'll blow them, but others will LOVE to do it. My wife rarely blows me because of jaw problems, but I lick her nearly every time we have sex.
So if he's into it, sit back and enjoy! You'll be glad you did. And if your guy is inexperienced buy willing/wanting to learn, don't hesitate to provide some directions.
Couldn't tell ya
2. Any other girls who can't stand guys going down on them? I absolutely hate it for a whole bunch of reasons, am I just odd?
Tis your body. If you don't like it, you don't like it. I, however, rather enjoyed it...
3. Why in the name of all the gods do certain males wish to go down on a lady when she's on? Sex I can just get my head around but oral during a period just seems really :yuck:
I've had sex while on. Twice, actually. Both times it was right at the end, but still. I was a bit disturbed that he wanted to sleep with me even though I was on, but there was once when he said to me "it is possible to go down on a girl when she's wearing a tampon"...which disgusted me hugely. I was just...eugh no *shudders*. But then, he was a twat anyway *shrugs*
I would never let a guy go down on my if I were on my period, but I guess if you use tampons and make sure the area is clean first then it wouldn't be such a big deal.
Boring, uncomfortable and difficult to breathe, but then I am a girl.
I don't even give them much anymore, I had a selfish boyfriend who demanded them all the time then I started saying to people 'I'll only do it if you'll go down on me first.' Worked wonders :yes:
2. Any other girls who can't stand guys going down on them? I absolutely hate it for a whole bunch of reasons, am I just odd?
Nah, some guys are just crap at it. If you find someone who actually knows where everything is then it's really good.
But I see what you mean, sometimes I worry they'll get bored or that they want me to shave, and that just really puts me off.
3. Why in the name of all the gods do certain males wish to go down on a lady when she's on? Sex I can just get my head around but oral during a period just seems really :yuck:
That's just unhygenic if you ask me.
Also doing it when the girl is 'nice 'n' spicy' (the lovely nickname my boy gave it) is just disgusting. Also that time is a bit sore and there is some grumpyness so i wouldnt imagine it'd be that great anyway.
Sophie
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You're not odd if you don't want a guy to go down on you. My friend absolutely can't stand it where as I love it (as long as it's done well ). As people have said, it's personal preference.
As for men going down on girls when they're on...yuk is all i can say. My bloke doesn't like having sex when I'm on although it doesn't bother me so we'll only usually do that on the last day when my period is really light/virtually non-existant. I doubt he'd ever want to go down on me at that time of the month, and I definately don't think I'd want him to