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ok so me n this girl av been best m8s 4 2 years now. She has problems at home n im alwayz there for her n have been ever since i new her. I first started 2 cht 2 her becuase i liked her but then i just found her such a nice person so we became very close friends. She has had loads of bad relationships and i cant stand it any longer i reli like her and she noes that i fancy her but not how much i do. The worst thing about this situation is that she is in the process of going out with another on of my best m8s which i dnt think im gona b able 2 handle i reli want to b with her but i dnt no how to tell her. I reli dnt think i will be able to handle her goin out with my m8 but i dnt wnt to stop being her friend?!?!?!! HELPhttp://vbulletin.thesite.org/newreply.php?do=newreply&noquote=1&p=233137#
sometimes certain lines shouldnt be crossed.
good luck
Its like communicating with the past... trying to give advice to a mute. Good job though!
anyway, i used to fall into the trap of fancying me mates, almost never went anywhere tho apart from the last time.
i ended up getting engaged to him, then he left me for my best mate and i don't really talk to either of them now so i effectively lost 2 friends
The situation is absolutely killing me inside!!
I have one of the worst situations possible one of my best friends who i have had feelings for for a while now and she knows i have feelings for is probably the most confusing person in the world...when we drink together she said she cant date me bc shes not ready for a relationship which is fine but then if i try to kiss her when i have been drinking she gets mad bc she doesnt want us to be a drunken thing but then when were sober she beats around the bush and wont tell me what she thinks of me and it hurts me so much inside bc i love her more than anyone i have ever met and i would do anything to be with her...can someone help me please i dont know how to handle the situation
--matt--