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Can someone please advise???
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I've only been with my boyfriend for about 3 months but I already feel like im too comitted. I don't understand. I've been in a 2 year relationship with a girl before and that went fine, we even ended on good terms but this is my very first boyfriend. I love being with him and he even said he loved me last night, but I'm not sure I want to be with him. If I try to talk to him about it he gets quite emotional and I don't want to end up breaking his heart only..........I think I'm not ready for all the hate I'm being dealt for being with a guy. I love the security of being in a relationship with someone like him and he's my best friend, but I can't handle the predjudice I'm facing. I'm not strong enough. :no:
Please advise someone, I'm kinda lost..........
Please advise someone, I'm kinda lost..........
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That was most likely mocking, but thanks anyway.
dude
So the big questions are, do you really love him?
Do you really care what other people think if it really is love?
Are you going to go for the rest of your life denying yourself love because it is frowned upon by other people?
I think you should probably just take a short break and see how you feel when there is no pressure on you.
Hey thanks, that really helps a lot. I don't think I love him, it's too soon and if I say it I want to be sure. I just remember being happier with a girl. I wonder what I should do. Maybe I will go on a break and think and then see what happens. Thanks darlin **hug** :thumb: