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Should I keep it my deep dark secret??
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I recently ended things with him to "be single" and experience things alone for a while seeing as I've been with him since I was quite young and felt that I needed this break. However, I only really realised that I missed him loads and it brought to light how much no one could ever replace him and how much I love him, so we got back together. I'm soo happy and in love with him at the moment and want to be with him for a very long time, however, something that is playing on my mind is the fact that I kissed someone else while we were broken up - it was literally a drunkard snog and that is all. However, should I confess this to my boyfriend in order to get everything out in the open and be honest with him? He hasn't asked if I've been with anyone else, but think that maybe he might wonder sometimes. Although, I know that he might be upset by this and I don't want to risk the realstionship which I'm soo happy in for no reason! What should I do???? :chin:
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But it's your call
But first of all, ask yourself:-
Whether you want to tell him just becasue you feel guilty?
And what good would you hope will come from telling him?
But if i felt guilty about it, i'd come out with it, even if it's just to make yourself feel better.
you did nothing wrong, so you have no obligation to. and if he wanted to know, he would ask.
you probaly feel guilty because the time you was single, you was still adjusting to it, and it still probaly felt to you that you was still with this guy, and therefore you felt bad.
I think after a break up, then being back together again, telling him you kissed someone, might make him feel sad, or make him feel your rubbing a fact in. unless hes really understanding guy, and understands this kiss made you relise all you want is him.
i hope it all goes well xox
good luck...