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Please read, i need major help, or a reasonable opinion, to this maze, thank you....
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My friend and i have done things, soooooooooo many times, and it cracks me up when we talk about it, cuz she's like i cant believe we did this, cuz we know each other from elementary school, but didn't see her for many years, until she started working where i use to work, and she recognized me, but at first it was all cool, until one day i noticed the way she looked at me, and that's when i was like, WOA! that was more than a friendly look, and ever since i started messing around with her, but she was always like, no i'm never doing anything with a girl you're crazy, hell no, and all that
but then again she couldn't play that with me, cuz i can tell by those looks that somehow she was attracted to me, and we always had this connection for some reason that i still cant understand, spirituality you know, so we get along GREAT! so then i once told her, that i had dreamed with her and i told her the dream, and she said to me with this mischiveous :flirt: face that gave me the answer, she was like, girl you better keep dreaming cuz that ain't happening, so i laughed and kept on bothering her.
but you see what im trying to say is that, i knew she was attracted to me since day one, and besides we clicked so well it's scary, but she always was like , hell no this and hell no that, so we did end up doing that and lots more, that i still cant believe all that happened, and what i dont get from her is that she does something, and then pretends like is all good, and at first i thought that it might of been a curiosity, but when you're curious to my knowledge, you can do it twice maybe three times but it doesnt go beyond that cuz obviously you have discovered the curiosity, and we would do stuff practically everyday, and i wouldn't start anything, so that threw me off even more.
and every time is was something new, and we just couldn't be together, it was like a magnet or something, anywhere we were, she even told me once, dammit! everytime im with someone now you pop into my head(when she was with a boy you know :thumb: ) and we just know when someone really likes us, and we would become one, it was powerfull, so im wondering what the hell can she be considered, cuz apparently she's confused, and is confusing me too, and now she doesn't even talk to me cuz of a guy there she thought i had something with, but i can tell and feel that she wants to talk to me, and besides i was her 1st :thumb: , and that's not a switch where you can be like ok im going to turn it off now and forget that all that happened with that person, and besides she would just give in too much, how the hell can she
play it out so well? :chin: cuz i cant, and i do like her a lot, as friends and whatever else there is and im sure she has feelings too, cuz she's not a damn robot, im trying my best to talk to her, or get her to listen to me but she's avoiding me at all costs and she's being too proud about it, or just feels something more for me, but cant cope with those feelings, cuz if it wasn't like that why would she keep avoiding me or not wanting to give me an explanation face to face? but i seriously dont know what i can do, but i cant keep on this way, i need to get everything straight.... PLEASE HELP ME< im extremely CONFUSED ! thank you so much....
but then again she couldn't play that with me, cuz i can tell by those looks that somehow she was attracted to me, and we always had this connection for some reason that i still cant understand, spirituality you know, so we get along GREAT! so then i once told her, that i had dreamed with her and i told her the dream, and she said to me with this mischiveous :flirt: face that gave me the answer, she was like, girl you better keep dreaming cuz that ain't happening, so i laughed and kept on bothering her.
but you see what im trying to say is that, i knew she was attracted to me since day one, and besides we clicked so well it's scary, but she always was like , hell no this and hell no that, so we did end up doing that and lots more, that i still cant believe all that happened, and what i dont get from her is that she does something, and then pretends like is all good, and at first i thought that it might of been a curiosity, but when you're curious to my knowledge, you can do it twice maybe three times but it doesnt go beyond that cuz obviously you have discovered the curiosity, and we would do stuff practically everyday, and i wouldn't start anything, so that threw me off even more.
and every time is was something new, and we just couldn't be together, it was like a magnet or something, anywhere we were, she even told me once, dammit! everytime im with someone now you pop into my head(when she was with a boy you know :thumb: ) and we just know when someone really likes us, and we would become one, it was powerfull, so im wondering what the hell can she be considered, cuz apparently she's confused, and is confusing me too, and now she doesn't even talk to me cuz of a guy there she thought i had something with, but i can tell and feel that she wants to talk to me, and besides i was her 1st :thumb: , and that's not a switch where you can be like ok im going to turn it off now and forget that all that happened with that person, and besides she would just give in too much, how the hell can she
play it out so well? :chin: cuz i cant, and i do like her a lot, as friends and whatever else there is and im sure she has feelings too, cuz she's not a damn robot, im trying my best to talk to her, or get her to listen to me but she's avoiding me at all costs and she's being too proud about it, or just feels something more for me, but cant cope with those feelings, cuz if it wasn't like that why would she keep avoiding me or not wanting to give me an explanation face to face? but i seriously dont know what i can do, but i cant keep on this way, i need to get everything straight.... PLEASE HELP ME< im extremely CONFUSED ! thank you so much....
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Hey Paula, mate, it seems to me like you and your girl need to have a heart to heart about what's going on. The plus is, girls can do that and be honest, the minus is that, girls can do that, and be honest. Anyway, talk it through with her and see what she says.
Seems like a lot of playing around goin on!
Hope u sort it
hmm bit of a sexist view there......
I agree with Turlough.
So can blokes? Or do we just start lying all of a sudden?
:banghead:
thank you again for your opinion :thumb:
play it cool...
only other suggestion i got!
thanks :thumb:
Me and my mates are painfully blunt a lot of the time when it comes to giving advice. You're using generalisations that are outdated. The new man and all that... ;o
e.g. if you were talking, you'd have said it all without stopping for breath?
slow down girl! you're gonan confuzzle/piss everyone off
:wave: Later
And what's funnier is that i talk to her family still, so her sister was telling me, that one day she saw me, and was telling her that she has seen me, but was giving her sister clues, cuz she didn't even want to say my name, why? if she didn't have anything bothering her like she says, how come she can't even say my name? or get over it? too many things that confuse me at once, lol i don't know how i got myself into this drama, oh boy..... but i just can't erase what i feel, and that's what sucks.......
Thanks again :thumb:
:wave: