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Understanding the phrase "leave me alone" and "No!"
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What do you do when your pissed and alone, drinking in a pub, drowning out your sorrows; and some idiot starts talking to you... you acknowledge one of their sentances - just to be polite... then they sit down next to you... carry on talking... start touching you... and no matter what you say - they just don't get the message to leave you alone...
What do you do ???
or rather how do you make idiots understand the word "No!" ???
Any replies appreciated ... thanx
could be good for future reference...it kind of went WAY too far!
What do you do ???
or rather how do you make idiots understand the word "No!" ???
Any replies appreciated ... thanx
could be good for future reference...it kind of went WAY too far!
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No, really I'd probably move. Or ignore.
Needless to say we were both pissed. But it worked.
Try that, do the "as if id go anywhere near you look" or "who do you think you are talkin to ME" lol always comedy
I think that if they dont leave you alone first of all be quite calm and polite. Obviously if that doesnt work, get angry they probably dont want attention drawn to the fact that they cant get a girl lol
Body language does it too. Turn you whole body away from them, if you cant look totally beyond them, pretend they not there. If they speak to you ignore them completely, not even acknowledging they are in the room.
Rock on :thumb:
If it's an old bloke I normally say I'm gay, or pretened a mate of mine is my boyfriend.
I can get quite hostile with unwanted touch.
But then i do have an anger problem, so pretty much to be expected hehe
But then i'd laugh after at myself and the bloke!
It is annoying when people won't leave you alone. Sometimes they just dont get the message. Try walking off to the loo, then going somewhere else when you come back where they cant see you.
it's just so annoying when guys won't leave me alone; they know i'm pissed and are only after one thing. - it's always older men as well for some reason, esp. as if I'm on my own, I tend to go into quiter pubs. when I'm with friends, its usually the uni bar or somewhere in the city.
may be i should just quit drinking... then it might not happen?
or may be i should stop trying to be so nice...even to total perverts...
:thumb: thanx for the advice y'all.