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Worried outta my mind

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Hiya

Well i am definately a virgin but a few weeks back my boyfriend came while i was tossing him off and then he fingered me... and im now a few days late and im really really worried i cud be pregnant? What is the chance of it cos i know it is possible and wat shud i do? Im only 14!

Thanx for ne help
Luv
Lil' Devil

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It is possible that your boyfriend may have fertilised you, however I would probably be so bold so as to say that it would be highly unlikely, given the circumstances you have outlined.

    Indeed, it is more likely and probable that your body is simply still developing and settling into a pattern of montly menstruation.

    Have your periods ever been a bit late in the past?
    If you are really worried, telephone the doctor and arrange an appointment... iirc they will simply ask for a blood test (or is it urine, with pregnancy tests <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> )

    Good luck
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sperm dies pretty soon after losing the body , unless he came all ove rhis hands and then straight after 'shoved them up you' it his highky unlikely u got pregnant
    but i know how u feel summat similar happend to me a few months ago
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Can't hurt to do a test...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah do a test mate, it will put ur mind at rest and stop u worrying. Simular thing happened to me! What r we like eh?! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yup, there is really good ones that work from the 1st day of your missed period so no need to wait around and worry further <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by xx deeby doo xx:
    <STRONG>'shoved them up you' </STRONG>

    Ohh how elegant and romantic <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sorry <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cool down..1st i wanna ask..is he using his finger..or his penis..?,,if fingers chance of getting pregnant..0% and if using his penis ..well that is sure still a bit chance of being a young mom
    if u still a doubt of it...buy a pregnancy test kit..no harm to be extra safety.. <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Grrr.

    *gives Karla a look about all newbies being as smart as ickleboy*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Angel^Jessie:
    <STRONG>cool down..1st i wanna ask..is he using his finger..or his penis..?,,if fingers chance of getting pregnant..0% and if using his penis ..well that is sure still a bit chance of being a young mom
    if u still a doubt of it...buy a pregnancy test kit..no harm to be extra safety.. <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    errr... thats not right, even if he is using his fingers there is still a chance of getting pregnant however remote. So if you dont come on within a couple of days i would do a test.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Angel Jessie - you have not got your facts right. There is a slim chance of pregnancy.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yup and the fact that she said fingering - wouldnt that suggest that he was using his fingers not his penis? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ....chill people....

    Lil' Devil! no matter how many of us tell ya that there is or is not a chance that u could be pregnant, the only way ya gonna know for sure is, like the others said, do a test - this will put your mind at rest, and let u think about the options u have, if the worst case senario happens!

    good luck sweet!

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