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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we love eachother very much. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
He is really good at oral and it feels great, but my problem is i never orgasm from it. We have been doin oral for about 3-4 months now and it's never 'done the trick'.

I was just wunderin if there's sumthing wrong with me. What he does feels soooo good, but i doesn't make me cum. I've climaxed a few times but it never resulted in an orgasm. <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

I know this probs sounds really selfish, but i'm gettin a bit frustrated with myself now and wondered if there is anything i cud do to 'help me along' Any advice is apreciated <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You say you've climaxed? This is usually what people say when they have reached orgasm.

    Do you mean you've built up to a climax but never fully 'got there'?

    Perhaps you can try masturbating until you're about the orgasm and then let him 'finish you off' so to speak.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BumbleBee:
    <STRONG>Do you mean you've built up to a climax but never fully 'got there'?
    </STRONG>

    Yup, thats about the jist of it <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    have you ever had n orgams before to tell what one is? <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, i've had orgasms before but not with my boyfriend. Its not because what he's doing doesn't turn me on or feel nice because it does. He knows what he's doing but like i said before, it never actually gives me an orgasm. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well if you have had one before then kinda guide your boyfriend into doing the same - and if it feels good anyway orgasm shouldnt be that important.
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