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Girl-From-Mars
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wont be having any of that for some time...
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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wots up Emma?
u alright?
L-I-L
u wont get any more than cybersex sitting in front of a computer screen all day.
not particularly okay l-i-l. broke up with mark last night.
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
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Hope yer okay.
((((gfm))))
cheekytrickster
i guess this isnt the most appropriate of threads to announce it in... dont even know why i posted this to be honest. something to do innit?
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
<IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> sorry to hear it
i dont know what happened, and im not going to, but im sorry about it, and im an extra shoulder.
gawd u wont need mine though, everybodys here for you
aside from his problems (most likely causing a lot of the ones we were having) it was to do with his attitude towards the distance, the fact that i had to get a job on saturday and his inability to be mature about it and get one during the week like we already agreed.. so basically we werent gonna see each other. its a lot more complicated than that but thats basically it. he wants to maybe get back together in a few months when hes sorted his probs out. dunno if i can do that, just sit around waiting for him when i should be getting over him, he cant expect me to just stay in love with him while he goes off and does as he pleases.
anyway, have to see. didnt really mean to say stuff here, but hey, its my thread, ill do what i like in it. its not like hes even gonna read it anyway, now hes "scrapped the net" to go and have a life or something..
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
rarr@relationships gone a bit wrong
I'm sure there are two sides to every story & I think both are hurting.
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j9
of course there are, but ive been in emma's position before(well the simplified position without the complications and well anyways, ok, a bit like it) and it made me all nasty thinking about it.
i dont know marks side of the story, and im never any good at being neutral. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
i just think emma needs support right now,and i can c where she's coming from. even if i did express it kinda negatively in some views
sorrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyy
thank you ickle ((((((((((ickle)))))))))
i think youre right. i mean i still love him, i cant get him out of my head or think about anythign else. i was willing to go to the efforts and lenghts needed to make this relationship work, and he just wasnt. i appreciate he has his own problems, which is what i was gonna help him with, be someone to talk to, be there to hold his hand if necessary and just be there for him. he had a problem with the fact im not actually THERE for him, even though i could be, if he didnt make such a big petty thing about the job situation. it wasnt even just a job to get some extra cash, it was to earn money for uni or else i couldnt go or id end up droppping out after a while and its all ive ever watned, to go to uni and get out of where i live.
so anyway he decided that not having me at all was better than having me far away. i KNOW that long distance relationships are hard ffs, ive been in 2 now, but theyre not that bad, i mean at least you have someone you can see every few weeks and at holidays, and on the net or the phone or whtever the rest of the time. definitely better than nothing, IMO.
cleary he doesnt think so. the thing about me getting a job on a saturday when i thought he was looking for a job NOT weekends.. well i had no choice, theres literally nothing else round here, its just shops and supermarkets which contract you for the weekends and its tough. i was gonna organnise a shift swapping thing so if he came down every month or so i could get the afternoon off, i only work a max of 5 hrs on a saturday anyway. but he said its "pointless" him coming down at all. even though hed get here at 10pm fri, id be finished work... he might not see me for a couple of hrs on the saturday.. but then we have from 5:30 at least onwards, and all of sunday and he can go home monday morning coz hes got no college. its so simple. all that is a bit of a hassle, but its so worth it, in my opinion.
but i cant just be here for him now and act normal as a friend and just take everything, with the possibility of getting back together. its just not fair. what will happen is he will decide hes strong enough now for a proper relationship, and will find someone closer when he has more self confidence. and that'll be 4, 6 months of my life witing for somethign thats not gonna happen. what if i meet someone else? (cant imagine thats likely...) do i turn them down just coz of the possibility of getting back with mark? and whats to say it wont just turn out like it did this time?
*very very very very large sigh*
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
I don't think you should sit and wait for him..
you have feelings too and it's incredibly hard to try and put them on one side and be a friend to someone you still care about.
Don't put yourself in that position, you deserve better!
We are all in the gutter.
The difference between us is that some of us face skyward..
Thats sympathetic of u Harry (not!).
i'm so sorry to hear that babe. as i'm sure you know we're all here for you.
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
i texted him today! i know i probably shuoldnt have. couldnt help it though. i just said i hoped he was okay and that i missed him and it hadnt quite sunk in yet that i might never see him again. and that he could email me sometime if he wanted, like someone to talk to, etc.
i had this dream last night... one part of it was where someone was moving house and i came across these necklaces of someone (male bizzarely!) whos one of my best freinds and i took them to look after them, and ten this wallet of marks, which i did the same with. i think its partly coz i dont have anything from mark to remind me of him , apart from the valentines card.. and lee suggested its coz i want to look after both of these people, and shes probably right. i want to help make all their problems go away and stop either of them from getting hurt.
i still really dont know what to do. i know i shouldnt sit around waiting for him... but if im still single when he's sorted things out, i dont see how i can say no to him. *sigh*. argh!! why are relationships so complicated!??!?!
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
sorry to hear the bad news emma. i'm sure (i KNOW) you have good reasons. i know that distance is a problem, and you know i'm telling the truth. i can relate to mark in many different ways, but i can see both sides of the issue.
i hope you're gonna get thru this relatively unscathed, and learn from mistakes made by both you and mark.
i'm here if you need a millionth shoulder to cry on. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Emma}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
but im sure u know that we're all here. time is the best healer! and im telling you from experience!
children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
i know i'm only a newcomer to this Site but i'd like to chip in.
I dont know you or your other (ex) half but you seem a decent person from your posts.
Maybe try and look at this this way. I think that everything happens for a reason, in the grander scale of things so to speak.
Let *nothing* stand in your way of your Uni aspirations cos i guarantee you'll absolutely love it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">. Earning and saving money b4 you go is also a good idea as things can get quite tight. Just think of the fun you'll have, new people, new course, new area, new male friends (and lots of them) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">!
Hope you're feeling better real soon, and your ex too (no doubt he's not feeling too good no matter who's at fault).
{{{{{{{{Emma}}}}}}}}}
I hope things get better for you soon! Remember uni next year! A totally new experience 4u <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
i am really looking forward to uni. i hate the people round here, that's a whole other psot though.
it isnt solely the distance that caused us to break up... i guess its just the straw to break the camels back what with the other probs he has. who knows, we may even get back together in the future? god i miss him so much NOW though <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
sorry about my good feeling being wrong. i know that long distance relationships are very very hard. although i met my bf at uni we had to endure long long seperations thanks to summers etc. very hard indeed and me being the paranoid one that i am didnt make things easier.
i also wanted to write and say that i know what u mean about having to get out of the place you live. I originally hail from sunny basingstoke <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> wikid. it was totally crap and i had about 2 friends that i actually liked. the only thing that kept me going was the thought of uni.
you havent got long to go now and will be out in a new place with new people doing totally new things. im sure you will have a fantastic time, i did...
just hang in there dude...
take care and best wishes.
cheekytrickster <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
exactly, 2 friends that i like! the rest are either fake friends just to keep the peace with our group.. or really nasty to me. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"> ahhh roll on may 25th, my last day!!
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
Get a grip of life and stop being so pathetic, GFM, you silly cow.
Something tells me whoever t eh fuck you are a) we know you and b) we don't like you
And all the grown-ups say is sorry, cos we got no reply.
I have made an official request to the moderators to remove this poster and expose their alter ego.
In my humble opinion this person is a troll, intent on upsetting the posters.
We know he/she is a regular, possibly someone who realises that they are not liked & is making these destructive posts in a futile attempt to break up thesite.
Trolls are often people who are not clever enough to be a hacker or a virus writer & find that this kind of antagonistic post is the only way to vent their frustration.
IGNORE THIS TROLL GFM, don't feed the troll.
j9
"can i join your club": no you most certainly cannot. and i very much look forward to karla and dom revealing your identity, after they, with any luck, ban you. anyway i have a pretty good idea of who you are anyway. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees
how do u know its a regular?
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
and why's he picked on just me so far? hmmm.... ithink its because ive been picking him up on stuff hes been saying recently under his other name... course i could be wrong, could be someone i thought was a friend. but i doubt it.
It only takes one tree to make a thousand matches, only takes one match to burn a thousand trees