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So apparently I'm gay...
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Well this was an interesting new years eve at the club. I had a gay guy ask my mate if I was interested in him. Apparently everyone in my ex work place thinks I'm gay and even my best mate of 11 years starts questioning my sexuality.
I wouldnt be so bothered but the fact is I know I'm straight but I guess I'm giving off wrong signals. Apparently it's my posture and some other crap.
So do I change who I am? Do I try and act more manly and 'straight'? Or do I just stick with who I am and give off all the wrong signals? I wouldnt be so bothered but it pisses me off that there could be a girl interested in me but just thinks I'm gay and moves on.
Sorry, this is the the drink talking but I''m very fucked off and very confused.
But happy new year, lol.
I wouldnt be so bothered but the fact is I know I'm straight but I guess I'm giving off wrong signals. Apparently it's my posture and some other crap.
So do I change who I am? Do I try and act more manly and 'straight'? Or do I just stick with who I am and give off all the wrong signals? I wouldnt be so bothered but it pisses me off that there could be a girl interested in me but just thinks I'm gay and moves on.
Sorry, this is the the drink talking but I''m very fucked off and very confused.
But happy new year, lol.
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My ex girlfriend thought i was gay because on some occasions i would straighten her hair or do her make up for her so she didnt have to. She stayed with me for a little while though.
Honestly mate dont you worry what other people think, iv pulled gay guys before but turned them down because im not at all attracted to men.
As long as you know what your sexuality preference is then its all good.
Quite a few girls go for guys who seem gay because they act gentler and show a more feminine side. One of my mates who is gay is always getting lasses after him.
Phoenix
Anyways, time for another bacardi and coke.
*cough*
Just carry on the way you are, metrosexual is the future anyway.
im dreading it....
all you can do is just be what you feel comfy doing, you know your sexuality better than anyone else and well you know what you like
jus b urself
Why would you dread it, it just means you get to do what you fancy, or not and no-one makes a big deal out of it.