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Ex's: Getting back with them?
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i started talking with an old girlfriend a while ago and kind of started liking her again. we dated for a year and a half and we've been broken up for 2 years. started when i found out she broke up with the most recent boyfriend she had. just felt an urge to talk to her which was odd because when she broke up with other boyfriends i didn't care. thought i could be friends with her, but now i am not so sure if that is all i feel for her. she is taking a break from dating at the moment, which gives me time to sort out what i feel for her. we are both different people now and i think if we tried again it might work.
has anyone ever gotten back with an ex they cared a lot about and had it work? or is it just a bad idea in the first place?
has anyone ever gotten back with an ex they cared a lot about and had it work? or is it just a bad idea in the first place?
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Tread carefully.
5 months back together now and I've never been happier with a guy before! We were together for a year and a half but broke up after the first term of uni. Then we got back together in the summer after a 6 month split, and have been having a great time since then. Having said that, we didn't split up over something as serious as marriage and children. Rainbow Brite is right - if things were to get serious between you two again, would you really be able to sacrifice the possibility of ever having a family of your own?
then just resently around april time this year we bumped into each other and decided we still wanted to give it all ago, as we did have alot of feelings for each other, but it didn't really happen once again.
although i think if you want to give things a try with your ex and really want to make a go of things you can, and things have changed from the past i.e the reasons why you broke up, then its worth a try, i know people who have given it a try the second time round and it has really worked out for them, even better then when they first were together.
i think if i left it a while longer then me and my ex could give it another try, its just the fact of growing up and realising exactly what you want.