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Asking For Sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Wouldn't life be so much simplier if it was socially exceptable to simply ask for sex??

I mean you see someone nice in a club or bar, say to them "I think you're attractive, would you like to spend the night together??"

BTW since it ain't socially exceptable to just come out and ask, anyone got any tips on finding out if someone is interested in a roll in the hay?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Whats with all the random threads all of a sudden?

    And in answer to your question isn't that what some people do in clubs anyway?
    Also i don't think sex would be quite the same if you just asked for it every time/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by beans
    Whats with all the random threads all of a sudden?

    And in answer to your question isn't that what some people do in clubs anyway?
    Also i don't think sex would be quite the same if you just asked for it every time/


    I think sex is the major reason people go to clubs, but how many actually pull?

    I mean if you're hungry you go to a place that serves food and ask for what you want, sex is a human want and there are places like bars and clubs but no one actually goes there and says this is what I want, anyone interested??
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well isn't that what prostitues are for then? Except that you have to pay of course.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by beans
    Well isn't that what prostitues are for then? Except that you have to pay of course.

    True but a lot of people in clubs and bars are there to find sex, but hardly anyone gets it cos no one asks, but like in other countries I hear it's more socially acceptable to be more direct
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hhmm :chin: i sorta get what you mean, and i think alot of people who go to a club looking for sex dont just ask for it for a few reasons:
    1) they'de probably get a slap off anyone who wasnt single
    2) Their chances of sex would probably be decreased, as alot of girls like to be chased and made to feel fancied - they may feel abit of an easy lay if alls they did was say "yeah sure"
    3) not everyone has that confidence
    4) Flirting is alot of fun+doesnt always have to lead to sex
    5) Alot of people go to clubs looking for a girl/boyfriend, a relationship not just sex!
    SBG
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I heard this somewhere not sure where but this bloke was saying his female french friend went out with some guy on a date, came home and having dinner with her parents and the dad says to his daughter "how was the sex??" :eek2:


    And she says "it was good"

    point being they're supposed to be a heck of a lot more open about sex in other countries, don't know if the story is true!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    now that is wierd :eek:
    SBG
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    get a girlfriend and you can!

    "honey I'm horny can we have a shag?"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by JustWondering
    I think sex is the major reason people go to clubs

    That is so not true, i go clubbing quite a bit, and im not looking to pull.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *TiNK*
    That is so not true, i go clubbing quite a bit, and im not looking to pull.

    Yeah thats what i was going to say, i go clubbing every week and i don't go to get laid, i go because i want to have a drink a dance and a laugh with my friends, if i kiss a guy or meet someone or whatever i don't think i want to take them home and have sex either, just go for a good night out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *TiNK*
    That is so not true, i go clubbing quite a bit, and im not looking to pull.
    me neither.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you don't even ask you just jump on me awake or asleep!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *TiNK*
    That is so not true, i go clubbing quite a bit, and im not looking to pull.
    seconded, i think pulling is a bonus but its not the only reason i go out.
    .matt
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Asking For Sex
    Originally posted by JustWondering
    "I think you're attractive, would you like to spend the night together?"
    What a odd question.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ~*STRESSED*~
    :lol: I soooooo don't :p

    god, lets get u 2 ur own forum :rolleyes:
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