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Doin' nothin for me

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I really need advice. Im 16 and I dont really find girls attractive. Its really getting me down but whenever I look at porn pics of the neked women it does nothing fro me :(

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you fancy girls?

    You might just not like porn, not everyone does.

    Do you fancy blokes?

    You might be gay.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well...are you attracted to men?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To be honest the guys seemed to do more for me but like in the past month that's not been an issue it was more of a phaze I think. I want all the normal things any normal guy would want. A family etc. I hope I'm not gay. I don't go in for all that stuff and I dont really feel comfortable around gay guys.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by :S Cofused :S
    To be honest the guys seemed to do more for me but like in the past month that's not been an issue it was more of a phaze I think.

    Does gay porn get you going?

    I would also add that it is very common to be uncertain of sexuality during your formative years, and it is perfectly normal to sometimes prefer members of your own gender, especially during adolescence.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Kermit
    Does gay porn get you going?

    I would also add that it is very common to be uncertain of sexuality during your formative years, and it is perfectly normal to sometimes prefer members of your own gender, especially during adolescence.

    It kind of did then it didnt and now it disgusts me a bit.

    When does the uncertainty end?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by :S Cofused :S
    It kind of did then it didnt and now it disgusts me a bit.

    When does the uncertainty end?

    Sounds like puberty is having a bit of fun to me.

    Do you sometimes fancy lasses and sometimes not?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Could it be that girls seem complicated?

    Like being a bloke then you can relate to other men as they have the same bits as you do.

    Women having breasts & a vagina can be quite frightening as it's something totally new.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    All's i can say is dont worry about what gets you frisky or what label goes with what preference...whether you end up being straight, gay, bi, whatever, it doesnt change you as a person.
    Dont stress about it, your still you no matter what does or doesnt bring your soldier to attention.

    Peace
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rachie004
    asexual prehaps?

    what, like a runner bean :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm straight, attracted to female people but don't like porn, so I'm probably in the same boat as Mr Confused, except that I'm 26!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you should try not worrying about it. Dont worry about putting a label on yourself. You might be gay or bisexual, or you might not be. You might just be you ?
    If you dont fancy anyone in porn, then dont watch porn! If you dont see anyone you fancy in real life, then dont go out with anyone until you do. If it happens to be men, then just accept yourself for who you are, and if its women, thats cool too.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    If it happens to be men, then just accept yourself for who you are, and if its women, thats cool too.

    But I remember when I went through a topsy turvy period, I was really worried I might turn out gay. 'Luckily' I didn't. I don't mind homesexuality at all, I would just prefer to be heterosexual. Have a family away in a farm somewhere a few horses and ponies, perhaps a cow, a big orchard, loads and loads of wildflowers, a dog and a cat I guess, and the resident owl who catches voles and mice in the field!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you dont go through your teen years worrying about your sexuality then youre not normal. Dont worry, it happens to everyone. You dont have to like porn! Stop labeling yourself. Just chill out :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheShyBoyInTheCorner
    But I remember when I went through a topsy turvy period, I was really worried I might turn out gay. 'Luckily' I didn't. I don't mind homesexuality at all, I would just prefer to be heterosexual. Have a family away in a farm somewhere a few horses and ponies, perhaps a cow, a big orchard, loads and loads of wildflowers, a dog and a cat I guess, and the resident owl who catches voles and mice in the field!

    bloody hell rich, surtainly not a city slicker are you?

    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im in agreement with others a few years ago i was "confused" fortunatly i decided which was my sexual preference and im more confident for it. Whichever way you come out of this confusion just remember as others have said that you are who you are and should be proud of that.
    .matt
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