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In a realtionship is it OK to play fight with your other half and how far is acceptable?
Are we talking like tickling, jokey friendly style punches (not hard enough to bruise), wrestling what?
Personally I think as long as it doesn't hurt its OK and can be fun!
Are we talking like tickling, jokey friendly style punches (not hard enough to bruise), wrestling what?
Personally I think as long as it doesn't hurt its OK and can be fun!
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why wouldnt it be okay
if you done it without them liking then itd be worrying but the playfights can be fun
Guys can stroke against the grain or tickle.
Naw. Totally depends on yourself and the partner, no? If you both like a wrestle then have a good wrestle.
Not at all, me and my grirlfriend act like this and we find it fun.
SBG
but really, I was saying to my girlfriend on the phone the other night, I playfight with my family and make fun of them all the time because I'm so close to them and know they won't take it personally, and it's the same with her. I would never do anything if she didn't really like it, but things like tickling or wrestling are fine. The other day she dragged me across the landing in her house and into her bedroom :eek2: talk about carpet burn.
T'missus nearly broke my hand doing it once though:(
Thats what I would have thought but apparently people don't see it this way and don't think you should ever jokingly play fight with your other half and its just plain wrong. Glad to hear some other people take my oppinion.
what i would say.
are you affectionate at all?
Malt Munk xxx
Different strokes for different folks; I see it being another way of being flirtatious/affectionate with your other half.
It's redundant really, but it's just a quirk to their relationship. Well, that's how I see it as.
Another thing that you both share, like a tradition/quirk such as if you're walking down the street you come to a lampost, you break hands and walk by it only to hold hands again.
i guess.
to me it's just the kind of thing you'd do with mates or a sibling. very platonic. which is maybe why i find it odd.
Sounds like a reversal on Caveman time. As in caveman spots cavewoman, then goe over to her & bonks her on the head with his club then drags he back to his cave & makes sweet loving to her:D
Evil...thats what I hate! Tickling, I don't mind having a roll around and struggle and a pinning session...! But tickling!!!
I think I get it from being one of those people, if you tease me, I might playfully give you a punch or squeeze your hand or nudge you...just being affectionate and like, even when having a rough and tumble, it's combined with lots of kisses, bit of dominating and lots of cuddles...:D
Malt Munk xxx:D
Not good.
Me and my boyf take the piss out of eachother a lot which usually ends up in a tickle fight which usually ends up turning him on etc.
Although I have caught him in his 'sensitive area' a few times by 'accident'. Nah, seriously, I didn't mean it.
Fnar.
But he would never do it to hurt me, and i wouldn't do it in front of people either because i would find that a bit weird, i mean people don't need to see that do they.
I think it shows how comfortable you are with eachother.
But yeah, I think one thing a lot of guys don't realise is that women are more sensitive than men and they don't realise their strength.