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Falling in love
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I'd really like to fall in love!!! Maybe it's a bit because i got over (i think) an unrealised 2 year crush on a girl from my class. I want to be able to like girls that are not her. The stupidest question ever asked, to which i know you can't give me an answer: How do i fall in love?
At least give me some advice... I'm the type who has to really like the girl (and i have to stress: her personality) in order to snog her or think about falling in love with her.
At least give me some advice... I'm the type who has to really like the girl (and i have to stress: her personality) in order to snog her or think about falling in love with her.
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Sounds like good solid advice for anyone. I hope you and your boyfriend are happy together.
I think you summed it up better than me.:thumb: I tend to be long winded
Nah, i'm not desperate anymore, it's just that i miss the feeling of being in love with someone, miss the adrenaline rushes and stuff like that. The biggest problem for me is meeting girls. Not because i'm extremely shy, or ugly or anything, it's just that i fall in love primarely with their personalities. That's what's really important for me. And you can't do that in a club, where you get to talk to someone for an hour or two. How do i get in a situation where i get to talk to a girl for long enough, but not become friends. There you go... If you can understand anything i've just said...:eek:
thanx for listening, everyone
Uhm.... let's not overreact, shall we?
Nah, it's really really not sexual tension, because i don't want to just shag her. But, i understand that what you've said is a great piece of advice, and i agree with you.
I tend to see her good sides that i *don't* have, or at least not all the time, like being really positive about everything, chatty, really cute, smiling all the time, so full of energy. I do get like that sometimes, but she's like it all the time, and that's one of the things i like about her. But now she's just an ex crush. I never got into a relationship with her, other than the friendly one
Oh, I don't care! I want someone to occupy my mind!
I'm in a kind of love crisis Not quite wanting to BE loved, but to love. Isn't that wicked? Don't worry, i had a few posts here after a party that lasted 'till 8am, and i was quite amased at what i wrote...
Man give me some of your energy. Maybe it will get me through my shift this evening.
It doesnt have to end in tears though. Just because it may've done for you in the past doesn't necessarily mean that it will for nmrmak (or you) in the future.
:yes:
Super-human...I used to be like you...up until, well, Thursday night actually. Love can hurt...a lot...and I hated it...and I was scared of it, and I never wanted it to happen to me ever again. I banned my boyfriend from falling in love with me, and I banned myself from falling in love with him. But mih. I don't care anymore.
Everyone remember this one small thing: Falling in love is fun.
I forgot how much fun it was until Thursday hehe