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"Do you think of me when you wank"?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Has anyone ever asked someone whether they masturbate while thinking of them, or told them that you do? Are you flattered if you know someone is thinking of you while they wank?

A female friend of mine once asked me if I masturbated over her, I told her I did and she said "Aww, thats kind of sweet and sick too!"

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: "Do you think of me when you wank"?
    Originally posted by jl151080
    Has anyone ever asked someone whether they masturbate while thinking of them, or told them that they do? Are you flattered if you know someone is thinking of you while they wank?

    A female friend of mine once asked me if I masturbated over her, I told her I did and she said "Aww, thats kind of sweet and sick too!"
    People have told me so yeah, and not just boyfriends i mean sad old gits have too... they make me cringe but people that are good looking i sometimes find it a turn on but when my boyfriend does, thats when i like it most.... means he still loves me in a sad romantic pervey way :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i told my last girlfriend after she told me that she did before we started going out! which was quite pleasant to know.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I asked a bloke who fancied me if he did, I'm not sure why I asked him because I didnt want to know. He said yes and I felt wierd.

    Why is it that when blokes do it its a bit tragic and desperate, when women do it, well thats different?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think of a number of women while masturbating. None, incidentally, use this website, in case certain female users are worried. Anyway recently, I've gone off masturbation completely.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    I think of a number of women while masturbating. None, incidentally, use this website, in case certain female users are worried. Anyway recently, I've gone off masturbation completely.

    Why have you gone off it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jl151080
    Why have you gone off it?

    I'll tell you on Private Message, if you really wish to know.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by bongbudda
    I asked a bloke who fancied me if he did, I'm not sure why I asked him because I didnt want to know. He said yes and I felt wierd.

    Why is it that when blokes do it its a bit tragic and desperate, when women do it, well thats different?

    Nah its not that tragic and desperate - just flattering...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I suppose so. I guess its just my experience, the bloke who fancied me was a little bit of a letch. He was a nice bloke, but well he wasnt that nice.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess its probably more flattering if you fancy them back - would it be any different if it was a random female though?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Wyetry
    I guess its probably more flattering if you fancy them back - would it be any different if it was a random female though?

    I dont know, I think it would, though I'm not sure why. And of course it would depend on the woman.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There is this one particular woman who doesn't live far from me that I think about when masturbating. If I told her that I think about her, she would make sure that masturbation would prove impossible for me in future.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by stargalaxy
    There is this one particular woman who doesn't live far from me that I think about when masturbating. If I told her that I think about her, she would make sure that masturbation would prove impossible for me in future.

    Yes, I think we had enough detail from your last post.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by bongbudda
    Yes, I think we had enough detail from your last post.

    Yes, I think so too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Before I used to be able to wank over just some random pics of women I liked the look of on the net.

    Now I can only wank thinking about my gf the net ladies just don't do it for me anymore probably cause my gf friend is real & fabulous :heart:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my girlfriend asked me this the other day after id had a particularly risque series of photos we'd made together developed....and apparently its a good thing that i do . lol

    Women....*sigh* lol

    Peace
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i had some do that to herself over fone, and not for me, i didnt even pay for the fonecall let alone know the girl too great, she only let me know once i asked why she kept having to pause what she was saying and stutterng
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I use to send naughty e-mails to gf at the time and few times she'd be gone for long time, then I'd get an e-mail from her telling me in great detail what she had been up to in the ladies at work.

    Fuckin teasing bint if ever there was one. Even though it's all ended, the e-mails still brighten up my work day and make me laugh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, most blokes I work with ATM have had a wank over me.

    My bloke also has a wank to me whilst I lezz off with Jenna Jameson.

    In his head, obv. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ooooh i'd like to do Jenna Jameson... she's hot... but has got to have a saggy fanny:( well maybe i could climb up there and hibernate for the winter :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    Yeah, most blokes I work with ATM have had a wank over me.

    Might want to rephrase that, you porn star :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by NinjaMaster
    Might want to rephrase that, you porn star :p

    I didnt see it that way the first time I read it, but now you point it out it does have rather a different meaning.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont think i'd like to work with people who wank over me, a bit pervey aint it?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I certainly wouldnt want my co-workers to wank over me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by NinjaMaster
    Might want to rephrase that, you porn star :p

    :blush: Over the THOUGHT of me. Whoops.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by aimz
    I dont think i'd like to work with people who wank over me, a bit pervey aint it?

    We're a pervy workplace.

    It's Eastenders/Debbie Does Dallas under one roof.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes I have been told that by a few girls. and I admitted to several that I thought of them while I was wanking. we are all just fine with it
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