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Tips Needed Please??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Before anyone starts, yes i've done a search and didn't come up with anything helpful.

In a fortnight's time, me and James are gonna be having a threesome with my best friend.

now, she fancies me and him, i fancy her and well, James is a typical bloke and up for anything.

I just wondered, does anyone have any good tips to keep everyone satisfied?

i've got a few ideas of what i'd like to do to her, but could do with a few more :D:naughty:

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Considering everyone seems to be intertangled with everyone fancying each other, i was say don't do it, it could get very messy.
    Sorry.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't do it

    Here's a site to help with 2+ people sex positions though:

    http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/threespos.html
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah don't do it or watch porno for ideas. Either way I doubt it'll be as good as everyone thinks.

    Lol bloke will blow he's load in 10 mins flat and has to watch two chicks eat muff for rest of night. :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd go along with 'don't do it' too
    With friends and lovers mixing things could get messy emotionally.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Jonesy
    has to watch two chicks eat muff for rest of night. :lol:

    I'd be quite happy watching that happen :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Crispy
    I'd be quite happy watching that happen :naughty:

    Probably would get a little boring after you have already blown your load. :eek2:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here's alink to our feature on threesomes - as it points out (and I think what the others are saying) is that they can get messy when two of the three are in a relationship. Many insecurities can arise. Have a good think first - do you really want to see your bf and best mate getting it on?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    All the people I've known who've done it have regreted it afterwards. It seems like one of those things thats a lot better in idea than practice.

    Good luck.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fuck it just do it and worry about the consequences later,
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would never go ahead with a threesome. Never, never, never!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd advise not having a 3some with a friend or anyone who you know. It's better to have one with a random stanger.

    EDIT: or even 2 stangers... that's exluding your partner. Someone, either you or you partner will end up getting jealous.

    If I was wanting a 3some then I would someone I didn't know tbh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Felix Da Housecat
    I'd advise not having a 3some with a friend or anyone who you know. It's better to have one with a random stanger.

    I'll agree with that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, the 3 of us have already tried stuff but haven't got as far as sex yet.....

    and to be honest, i find it a major turn on, as does James :D

    so, thanks for the concerns and the links to tips and stuff :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well you'll have to tell us how it went now.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i shall when it happens ;)

    at the moment, the 'event' is planned for next weekend, but there's a possibility of something happening tomorrow night....

    we shall just have to see how it goes :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Or better yet Video it and you might be able to make some money selling it over the internet.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Set up a web cam and we can all watch and give tips live.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol, i've already had James asking me if he can record it.

    i told him to ask our mutual friend and see what she thinks first then i'll think about it :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by welsh_mosher
    lol, i've already had James asking me if he can record it.

    i told him to ask our mutual friend and see what she thinks first then i'll think about it :D

    You're recording it? Would it be impertinent of me to ask where we will be able to watch the footage later? :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    To be honest I think a foursome would be better...otherwise theres always one left out while the other two get it on and if its her more than you it could end up getting messy...also agree with the 'better with a stranger' idea, or maybe next time you could be the stranger, then you don't have to clean up the mess afterwards :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, for those of you who were interested....the threesome was great!

    i didn't feel left out once, had the best orgasm i've ever had, gave my best friend multiple orgasms and got to treat my fiance to the best weekend of sex we've ever had cos watching him shag my friend made me ultra horny :naughty:

    so yes, i would recomend (?) a threesome to anybody, just make sure ya have fun ;):p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ooh my.

    I DEFINATELY want to do a threesome before I'm married.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by welsh_mosher
    cos watching him shag my friend made me ultra horny :naughty:

    I think i would probabaly cry if i saw my boyfriend do that! I would be so jealous, did you not even get a bit jealous wathcing your man with someone else?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by beans
    I think i would probabaly cry if i saw my boyfriend do that! I would be so jealous, did you not even get a bit jealous wathcing your man with someone else?

    I would as well, I'd be SO hurt. I'd rather be the third person added to be honest.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by 1983
    I would as well, I'd be SO hurt. I'd rather be the third person added to be honest.

    Yeah if you was the person that wasn't involved with either if them then i guess that could be quite fun, but theres no way i would want someone to join in with me and my fella, espically one of my close friends.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i did feel a little bit jealous at first, but then the horniness took over and everything was fine :naughty:
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